Does anyone feel a sense of compunction when they are instrumental in the apostasy of another, in regard to the hardships that will be incurred, for the other individual, because of such?
I find christianity to be morally offensive and downright disgusting. Anyone who subscribes to a faith that claims that Nazis can go to Heaven by simply asking for forgiveness (Mark 3: 28 ) while their non-converted Jewish victims must burn in Hell Forever! (John 14:6) and can't find anything even slightly wrong with that doesn't deserve consideration for their "hardships" by my attempts to rescue them from their f***ed up cult. "Salvation" is the very foundation of christianity but they don't put enough thought into it to realize that (the above) is what that actually means.
Would you have felt compunction for rescuing Susan Atkins from Manson?
People ONLY do what they want! They may throw blame around later, if they feel stressed, but unless they re truly at gunpoint, rest assured, you are an incidental bystander.
Even at gun point a true believe will only supply lip service at best. But I agree on your first point.
I leave people alone in their mistaken beliefs. Not my business.
I have, however, corrupted my ex's prudish upbringing. He was a fussy, conventional, religious person when we started seeing each other, but I eventually got him drinking wine, going skinny dipping, and doing mild B & M, with all the trappings and costumes. He didn't seem to mind being corrupted, though.
At that time, I still attended church, but eventually I began pulling away from it because our church rebuked us for going ballroom dancing. I thought it was none of their business and that they were nutty control freaks, but I don't know how much my ex agreed with me.
I can not force anyone to truly believe or not. It isn't my decision to make. Supplying evidence or counter arguments are all I am responsible for. I can't weigh those arguments for another.
Nope. I'm not your momma. If you do stuff for which you are not prepared, it's not on me.