Perhaps you need to take responsibility by actually looking at a profile. Have you learned how to do that yet?

To find out if members are here for dating or community - you can hover over a profile.
Just mouse over. (Or use your finger if your on a touch screen).

Or click on the member photo or name to open the full profile. This is my Full Profile [agnostic.com] - which is way more than you see if you just hover - or presume I'm a cat from my photo right?

Here's some site basics. [agnostic.com]

Someone just told me today that we are far superior to other dating sites because we expect people to participate. That way you know what someone is about. It isn't just a photo and what they want to tell you. You're going to get a good idea of what someone is like by what they post about and how they respond to others.

If someone is just here to BS - we learn that too. And members soon block them.

Sure it's a different process - but it just might be a better one.

And there's about 55K members - all over the world. However we are - for the most part - Agnostics. So there's one factor you don't get on other dating sites - that may hold some importance to you. You can decide.

The little stars, etc on their pic tell you that immediately, and more on their pic when you click on them, plus the statement right under the pic about "open to meeting..." or "here for community".
If all you want go do is talk to single guys, may I suggest Plenty of Fish?

If you ever get across the pond, I know a very single pirate.

I joined this in hopes of dating and found a community that I like. Cheaters are everywhere , I've had none here contact me but everyone's mileage may vary.

Im misunderstanding your issue?
Many of us are here more for community.
Did they lie to you? Offend you?
And if you check your settings, you will find its possible to adjust things so only those open to dating can contact you.

It's not an app on my desktop. It's a site for people to interact.
You haven't commented to one of these peoples' posts who've taken a moment to encourage/entice you--
Sorry for your App experience--

With all due respect from a fellow woman, your profile looks like you looking for anything but serious. So take that as you will.

Maybe they noticed the background mess in your selfies. What's going on in your bathroom?

I came here for intellectual discussion. And i found someone I plan to stay with til forever. Stay or don't. Try the conservative guys.

I have just the opposite issue! All the girls want me, and all the boys too, and dog, cats, dragons, and unicorns, etc, etc, I'm just so fucking irresistible, I have to Beat them all off.

Most online dating is just pickup crap online.

Having looked at your profile. I noticed you are not ruling out hook ups, being from UK I'm guessing that means one off flings. So if that's true what does it matter what the mans relationship status is? Unless you primarily want a long term relationship but don't mind starting it off with a casual experience?

Just saying because it might be a bit misleading.

Keep at it. Perhaps your luck will improve

Aww too bad, that means more taken men for me. Bye! [media.giphy.com]

I sent you a message. I’m not in s relationship and I’m right here in Sacramento. Just sayin’.

You just joined. Try having realistic expectations.
Or you can just be disappointed and leave the site.
Your call.
Just stop whining.

I have heard women here complain about that problem with every dating site l have ever heard of.

We’re not all unavailable.

We’re not all in your area either, but that’s a different story...