@martin2999 you filled in your bio. good. now i have something to say about what you wrote. on most dating sites, yes, what you said about presenting yourself to attract people is true. here? not so much. we have a community too, as you will have noticed (and i forgot to mention that your post is actually in the wrong category; it sort of belongs in site & customer service, since it's not ABOUT love and relationships). on this site, the very best way to attract people, and find people to whom you are attracted, has little to do with profiles (we still like to see them of course). it is easier to know whom you like by what they say, how they participate, how they show who they are, posting on topics most of which has nothing to do with romance. if you want the best chance of finding a person to fulfill whatever it is you're looking to fulfill, i highly recommend browsing the categories, finding posts that interest you, engaging in those conversations, posting likewise, and seeing who's who and what's what around here. then you'll not be messaging people cold (hi, i saw your profile, you're pretty, i have no idea whether that's even a picture of you or whether your profile is truthful but here i am, let's date) but instead will be starting warm (hi, i loved what you said about cheeseburgers. i feel the same way!)

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hahah am trying to i hope you can smell it right on here