Is it ok to message women directly or is there some other protocol?
It says on each person's profile if they're interested in meeting people and what kind of people they are interested in. If you fit that criteria why not. I personally would have a few conversations first maybe follow them, then send them a message like are you interested in chatting. Everyone seems pretty mature here so just be respectful and what do you have to lose besides being rejected and hating yourself for trying lol I'm kidding.
What you do, see, is you search all her posts and comments and then leave your own comment on all her posts and comments, and she's bound to take note, and be awestruck by your intellect. The rest, as they say, is the hard part.
Message directly. Just keep in mind that the site will randomly delete your PM's. I had a long chain conversation just up and disappear. I've received several introductory messages, I reply, no response. Not sure whether the site made the message go poof or what happened.
My guess is to approach it like any other attempt at breaking the ice-do your research, pick your moment, tighten your chin strap, and go for it.
Sure! That's how it's done.
But the reason the most interesting women might seem to live across the world from you, is likely because someone living near you might seem ordinary.
Someone from Tasmania? Exciting! Someone from nearby .. maybe not so much.
Have you ever talked to a stranger before?
You may message anyone you want, if they message you back is up to them.
Completely agree. Just be respectful