What is the most important trait you want in a lover?
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AnneWimsey
Level 9
Mar 2, 2018
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Dan Savage coined the acronym GGG. Good, giving, game. A good, giving lover who is game for almost anything. I go with that. 
AdorkableMe
Level 7
Mar 2, 2018
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Kindness
Rugglesby
Level 8
Mar 2, 2018
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oooops, Kindness is for partner, if lover but not partner I would say uninhibited, insatiable you get the picture.
I don't see why kindness would not be a charachteristic of a lover. If it is just boiled down to the sexual act may as well get a blow up doll
Playful kindness.
birdingnut
Level 8
Mar 2, 2018
4
Absolutely! We can all use more of that in our lives - lover or otherwise.
Breathing.
MarcIveson
Level 6
Mar 2, 2018
4
Lol. Necrophilia does look bad on ones record.
LOL
@Blindbird Fair enough , but at least still warm
An understandung that, as a parent, she won't be the center of my universe. That position is already double booked by my kids.
JohnnyMiller
Level 6
Mar 2, 2018
5
good call.
I'm gonna go with existing! 
(I mean assuming existence is a trait.)
Ersomething
Level 6
Mar 2, 2018
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Speaking as someone who has completely given up, I would have to say remembering to take the trash and recycling out on Thursday morning.
Kojaksmom
Level 8
Mar 2, 2018
3
@ScienceBiker Lol! No!
Honesty, gotta find a girl that will be honest no matter what the topic is.
BryanBrown
Level 4
Mar 2, 2018
2
no hang ups about there body and open about likes and dislikes
LeighShelton
Level 8
Mar 2, 2018
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A lover who is not afftaid to let you know what she wants and is willong to try anything as long as it don't hurt
Russelldmc
Level 2
Mar 2, 2018
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i thought you said lover, not partner
LeighShelton
Level 8
Mar 2, 2018
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oh yeah, I best change my answer now.
why do the answers seem to be about partners ie in general life rather than as a lover ie what you want from sex I wonder?
@LeighShelton says a lot. Many of us want a partner not just a wham bam thank you ma'am
I do @LadyAlyxandrea but the question is definitely asking about lovers which doesn't mean wham bam especially or say mean a heart of gold.a lover can be a one night stand or someone you just have sex with or the part of your relationship that is the sex.
Honesty and Friendship. Someone who would drop what they were doing to comfort you in your time of need.
AustinSkepticus
Level 7
Mar 2, 2018
1
Animal attraction between us. Bodies without mind control. Let's see that cat in the bag. Without that spark at the touch of the flesh. I lose interest quick. We are talking lover not partner.
GipsyOfNewSpain
Level 9
Mar 2, 2018
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