What is the most important trait you want in a lover?
I want someone who is open, honest, and communicative. By communicative I mean willing and able to talk about anything and everything. Someone who doesn't take all kinds of subjects off of the table when you're trying to get to know them. Someone who is comfortable with themselves and comfortable sharing themselves with another.
Make me LOL and laugh at my "wit", and love to dance! Oh, and do karaoke with me
GGG and a good (great is better) sense of humor. I guess that is four.
He must understand that I will not toloerate any abuse . The momenet he abuses me, even once, I am am gone forever.
The connection. Mental first, then physical. I don’t do one night stands or sex for sex sake because that defeats the lasting connection taking your time can give you. Once I focus on someone they are the most important thing. I tend to rely on my sense of what’s right or wrong from an emotional perspective. In that area I am more female than male, yet I am male in the physical arena. I’m not for just anyone, lol.
Make me LOL and laugh at my "wit", and love to dance! Oh, and do karaoke with me
The relationship has to be effort equitable. Your partner has to work just as hard as you do at making the whole shebang work. That's why my ex is my ex. With her severe lack of motivation, once things devolved to the point that I was about 90% of a supposed 50%-50% relationship and showed -0- desire to do things different...it was time for change.