There are things outside this place I brought in with me.
It was not healthy.
It did not make me happy.
Worst of all I allowed it to interfere with the happiness of others.
Alas we are too soon old and too late smart.
Forgive me my trespasses here.
Life has conflict, and unreasonablness, and shit that sticks with you no matter where you go.
To expect you to leave everything at the door would be sheer folly on everyone's expectations, including yours.
To learn about someone you need to see both their good side and bad, as everyone has both, and hiding one side is lying to everyone.