Clear, Smiling Photos are Key

Your profile is an advertisement to attract the type of women you want to date.

What matters more than anything when it comes to your online dating profile? One word: Photos.

Want to completely kill any chances of success? Then upload blurry, dark or poor quality images. This seems like an obvious statement, but thousands of people upload pics like this.

You have 5 seconds to make a good impression. Women will see your main photo as a tiny pic the size of a saltine cracker on their cell phone screens.

If your main photo is not clear, bright and attractive, they move on. A genuine smile is inviting, warm and appealing. Women want to see your eyes and smile.

If you look happy in your photos, women will see you as a fun person they will enjoy being around.

Your main photo should be a head-and-shoulder shot, showing you SMILING and looking at the camera. You also need a recent full body shot, again taken outdoors and smiling.

Other pictures should show you outdoors, doing activities you enjoy. No hats, sunglasses, alcohol or stupid poses.

Profile Writing Tips

Describe your best characteristics and strengths, activities you enjoy, and what you are looking for in a relationship. Talk a little about the type of woman you want to meet using personality traits.

Avoid anything negative. Nobody wants to date a negative person.

Describe activities you enjoy and would enjoy doing with a woman.

Trust issues,history,maybe past bad decisions,fear of abuse,repeating the same failed situations?Add drugs and alcohol to the mix, and any relationship is almost doomed to fail.

I'm sure something like the romanticized version of true love exists with some couples, maybe 3% of all couples would be my guess.

It's been my experience that nothing that is special, and truly of value, comes easily.
A deep love is one of those things ...

Stop looking for it and it will find you.

By true love, do you mean a love that is reciprocated and is true/faithful to you? That is a challenge. Seems the harder one looks, the harder it is to find.

I've decided to just be happy on my own, being true to myself, without seeking love, doing things I love to do, without a date, and if love happens while interacting with others, while being happy with myself, then fine. If not, I'm good on my own.

There is not such thing, there are only imperfect moments that you wish would go on and on.

I found it here in my Singles/Mingle/Chatroom with Our_existance 9 months ago.

I do understand love I just don’t know why I can’t find it.