Meh. Thanks for the tips on how you judge people. I am looking for someone with different standards than you, but I also don't have unrealistic expectations about this site, and finding a "twue" match here (man seeking woman, man seeking man, trans seeking.... etc.... ) All i can say, from my perspective, all selfies are trash, unless I just want to know what you look like before we meet for coffee.

Sound advice for picking up you. This is the profile pic I used here when I meet the love of my life. She said she liked it because it was bright, fun, and wouldn't have paid any attention if my pic was just my face - it told her about my personality way more than my image would have.

Let us be us. If you don't like it pass on by, but please don't try and dictate how we want to present ourselves. I'd think you'd be happy knowing you'd be #2 to something from the get go instead of finding it out later, for example.

No public restroom selfies! No home bathroom selfies standing over the bathroom sink. Hey, just skip bathroom selfies altogether.

Lol! I like a picture of a man that is laughing, naturally. Pictures of a man "out and about" in the world. No bathroom selfies!!! Please keep it real!