Drop the whole "men or women" stuff and just be human beings.

Listen and show empathy. You don't always have to agree or even, necessarily, understand. Just accept that others are different than you and care about them.

Adopt a secular humanist philosophy.

I think that learning to be strong on your own can help many people appreciate the joy of the presence of another person. You don't wnt to be miserable alone - but why put that kind of stress on someone you are supposed to love?

Be kind, be gentle, be logical - and be true, even to (especially to?) yourself.

so, two lincolns worth of my thoughts.

The golden rule still works....with a caveat: also listen to how others want to be treated.

Love unconditionally

The only answer to this is, simply, to make an effort. Day to day we barely know the effect we are having around us, our focus is deliberately narrowed to account for the conscious intent of our actions. This is how an ego calculates, and that's the tool we have for locating ourselves, in an environment, as the "better" or "worse" human being.

So we project our intent and if we are open to the reality that it has a narrow focus, that it must need a limited focus in order to work at all, then we allow ourselves the grace to see ourselves as becoming better.
From there, its just effort.

Damyata datta dayadhvam

exercise control, give of yourself first, and show compassion

Give back whenever you can.

Read history of the last 200 years around the world so as to understand how we got to this point

Communicate. It’s that simple. We learn by listening and expressing. Communication encourages teamwork.

Be knowledgeable about things you care about

Be kind in all you do. Think before you act. Choose love

Be kind in all you do. Think before you act. Choose love

The answer is to have empathy for your fellow humans and the world around us and to act on that empathy to make things better not worse. My father said to me many years ago that it would be a sad and wasted life to have lived it without trying to improve the world you lived in.

Live and let live....

Find your real self.

If it's raised in sunshine I'll eat it.Pigs are very sensitive beings.Will not eat the stall raised until reasonably hungry.Hey I got standards.

Doesnt that depend on what sort of human you are in the first place?

Live your life full out--do all the things you dream about. As long as it doesn't harm you or any other living thing, go for it. The more we learn about each other the better we will be--and drop the gender, sexual orientation, religious, cultural labels

Vote.

Be kind, patient and not judge yourself to harshly. I believe then you can more honestly do that for others. Note, this advice does not work for narcissists or sociopaths

Die? I always hear good things about those who die.

Travel. Be a stranger in a strange land. Also, learn something new so you can struggle with something and get better at it.