I'm a curvy girl!
With that said, a man from this site messaged me to tell me admitting to my curves eliminated most of the available men for me--"And that's a fact Baby." How polite! Like I hadn't thought of that before? Gotta wonder why a guy feels the need to send words like that.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.He's an asshole-ignore him.
sassygirl3869
Level 9
May 1, 2019
5
Blocked him!
What an idiot HE is. I’m short and curvy: more men(and women) love it, than not. I’ve sure never been kicked out of bed!
CarolinaGirl60
Level 8
May 1, 2019
8
Sounds like a real winner. Probably the same guy that told me I look like a cross dresser. Naturally the idiot didn’t have have the balls to have a pic on his profile.
You have class and intelligence, two things he’s obviously lacking. You look great too!
Green_eyes
Level 8
May 1, 2019
6
Thank you Green Eyes. You look elegant.
You look amazing.
@Sticks48 you are too kind.
@Green_eyes I just report what I see.
Ignore the prick, it's not worth your time to even evaluate the situation. Move forward proudly.
Unclehotrod
Level 7
May 1, 2019
5
Honey would date you anytime that guy was a asshole
bobwjr
Level 10
May 1, 2019
4
I'll let you know when I come to the East Coast
@ElusiveMoby please do
It's kind of sociopathic. I don't get it either but that might be a good thing. Best to be happy you got a clear sign of where his mind is at.
brentan
Level 8
May 1, 2019
3
You are totally correct. Best to know this soon.
@ElusiveMoby plus, anyone trying to drag you down, is already impossibly far below you!
I found that to be a pretty common thing on dating sites. Some men enjoy harassing and humiliating women for the sick sense of power it gives them.
Kojaksmom
Level 8
May 2, 2019
3
Thanks for saying SOME men, many of us are as appalled by this behaviour as you are.
That man is mean. Shame on him. He had no right to criticize your body.
"You have a stick figure," a man lashed out after I declined a second date. We had met for lunch.
That still stings.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
May 1, 2019
2
He said that after requesting a second date. You turned him down, and that bruised his fragile little ego. He said it to be mean and to get under your skin. You admit that it worked. Do not let it continue to do so. He had no problem with your figure before you turned him down for a second date, ergo your figure is fine. It's his ego and personality that needs work, not your figure.
You're gorgeous and that's just ridiculous.
Thank you! All my life, I have been ridiculed for being too skinny. Even my hiking partner Karen gives me shit about my body.
Karen thinks she needs to lose weight despite hiking every day.
It goes to show people will always comment, regardless of what a person looks like.
It says more about them!
Thank you.
A steep, daylong hike carrying a pack burns up to 5,000 calories. I often hike twice a week.
In 2015, my boyfriend Dan taught me to add cheese to my sandwich because I was losing too much weight.
Photo: Hiking steep Deception Creek trail on a hot day, August 2015.
"Not all pounds are created equal. In fact, your total body weight isn’t a clear indicator of how you look or what health risks you may face. Two different people who weigh the same amount can look very different when one has a high percentage of fat and the other has a high percentage of muscle."
"An extra 20 pounds of fat may give you a softer, less toned appearance. But an extra 20 pounds of muscle will look firm and sculpted.
"Muscle serves a different function than fat. Fat helps insulate the body and trap in body heat. Muscle boosts your metabolism. This means the more muscle you have, the more calories you burn when you’re at rest."
This is exactly right.
Because he has a tiny dick.
mooredolezal
Level 7
May 1, 2019
3
A bit of self promotion doesn't hurt 
He's fucking garbage, a moron, or both. You should shame him publicly to eliminate most of his options here.
JimG
Level 8
May 1, 2019
3
That's not my style. But thanks!
He is an idiot, I married two curvy women.
A woman should look like a woman not an emaciated stick insect.
I only ever once went to bed with a thin girl and was terrified she was going to snap.
LenHazell53
Level 9
May 1, 2019
3
It's probably not necessary to shame or criticize thin women either?
@NoPlanetB @Athena
You know what, you two are just looking for a fight.
I made no criticism of anyone, Just gave an opinion and made a joke on moronic social norms in support to someone who had been attacked by an idiot.
Try contextualising before you start randomly lashing out at people for no reason other than vainglorious virtue signalling.
EDIT by the way I notice you did not comment on, villifie or castigate any of the women who said the same thing I did?
I didn't see anything in our replies to you that could be considered lashing out. We were merely pointing out that you were doing exactly what this man did to the women who posted. He criticized her for having curves and you were criticizing women for not having them.
Sorry you were so offended. You may have done this without realizing you were similarly shaming a different body type, and the comments were to help make you aware that supporting one person doesn't require insulting another.
Because he is dick that builds himself up by tearing others down.
Lucy_Fehr
Level 8
May 2, 2019
3
A tiny limp dick obsessed with skin and boney females deprived of food while he stuffs his ignorant fat face
I can honestly say that whomever he might be that said that to you is 100% full of shit. Men like curves. Women too. By admitting to your curves, you've probably, despite his disagreement, doubled or tripled your chances of finding a date here. Don't let idiots fill your head with nonsense like: "men don't like curves"...
Kafirah
Level 8
May 2, 2019
1
Much better to pretend to be something we’re not than to be proud of who we actually are 
A2Jennifer
Level 8
May 1, 2019
3
Hmmm, Bet he has curves. They are likely I under his man boobs.
By the way. Genuinely, you are very attractive. I love your smile and pretty eyes.
Heathenman
Level 7
May 1, 2019
2
Thank you so very much!
well, that's his opinion. Some of us like curves!
Philistrate
Level 5
May 2, 2019
2
I personally think the variety of shapes and sizes in men and women makes it all so much more interesting. Obviously, some people are shallow and only focus on outward appearance, so you don't need them in your life...I don't blame them for wanting what they want, but it is not my cup of tea, so I can also choose not to be associated with them.
I am sorry that he felt he had to voice his opinion when shutting his mouth and saying nothing would have been the more polite thing to do...don't waste your time trying to figure it out...not worth it...there are plenty of people who accept you as you are...hugs!
thinktwice
Level 8
May 2, 2019
2
A man who doesn't like curves might as well go out with a skinny boy. Females are supposed to have curves. Models are freaks.
MsDemeanour
Level 8
May 2, 2019
2
Careful @MsDemeanour I've already been reprimanded for making statements like this by some of our resident moral police for "Thin shaming"
@LenHazell53 yes to be fair, men have preferences for all shapes and sizes. Still it is supposed to be evolutionary to view a woman with hips and breasts as good childbearing material
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