Absolutely true. Be a complete person FIRST! Then finding the person to compliment, not complicate, your life will happen with little effort.

Only partially true. There has to be some commonalities otherwise there will be drama and drama only hurts a meaningful relationship especially when one gets to a more 'mature' time of life. That said, yes differences can be complimentary. In my last relationship she was a super extrovert and I an introvert. This really helped me open up and being on an extrovert island (sounds like an oxymoron but there are exceptions to all rules) one needs that to fit in. The one thing I hate, though, is so many people know me because of her but I don't know them. Being bad with names doesn't help.

There are a LOT of people out there who want someone else to provide them with "happiness".....not understanding that happiness comes from within. And, not for nuthin' - "happiness" and "contentment" are not one and the same.

I must be OK. I have been told more than once I am full of it. COOL!

Exactly.

Man Wants Me to Rescue Him

I rejected a man who is deeply depressed and wants me to rescue him. Gary appears to have dependent personality disorder. Gary wanted me to make him happy, get up off the couch and hike. Although he claims to love hiking, he hasn't hiked in years. Gary asked me to move in with him during our first (and only) meet. Yikes.

The last straw was when he posted two hiking photos I took of Minotaur Lake and surrounding mountains on his photography website. He posted my photos without my permission or crediting me as the photographer. I was appalled.

"It is unethical to pass off my photos as your own," I said." My intentions were honorable," he replied. What is honorable about plagiarism?

Gary's ego is so fragile, he immediately canceled his Facebook profile, Fitness Singles membership and photography website. Apparently, he put all of his emotional eggs in one basket.

Yup very accurate

Indeed. If you think you're incomplete, work on that. Alone.

That is exactly what I do.

Perfect. It’s the only way, and the best way.