You would never know if he really wanted to be with you, or just wanted someone to save him financially. I don't think incomes have to be exactly equal between partners, but it's risky to start off a relationship with it being so lopsided.

Financial responsibility and health are important to me, and I don't think I would be able to spend much time with someone who wasn't solvent. No, you can't ask for a P&L statement, but there are many 'tells' to look for either before meeting, or certainly after meeting someone.

I would have, sure. Been there myself and it didn't make me a bad person.

If I'm employing them no way I'd date them.

Now living paycheck to paycheck and spending cash at a bar I'd seriously balk at.

Well, no. Technically though, -I- live month to month on my disability income. (Family won’t allow me to become homeless).
I don’t expect a new partner to pick up my slack, ever. I’ve been single again since 2014 and don’t plan to marry or cohabitation again. So I don’t expect to be taken care of, nor to take care of a partner financially.

Not any more.

NO.
There are people who see themselves as "rescuers," who like to take in needy people. Of course, the people take what they can get, and leave. But the "rescuers" never seem to learn. They complain of their romantic betrayals to everyone who will listen, then go out and do it again.