I'm seriously beginning to feel men are not for me.

I'll tell you a real life story that just happened to me this week & you tell me which part of this shit show was my fault

Went on date with a guy Saturday 6/8 sushi, taproom and movies ( same night) everything seemed to be going great, he called when he got home & we had a 3 hour conversation (after a 5 hour date) Sunday we text off and on all day, no red flag. Monday the same. Tuesday rolls around and he says he wants another date and he's willing drive to Cincinnati, I give him my address and we plan to see each other Wednesday ( yesterday) at 8pm. Now here is where the shit hit the fan. I get off work, get home clean my apartment, go grab a bottle of wine, get some fucking candles all that other womanly shit, 8:30 rolls around he's not shown up, I call no answer, text no answer, so finally around 10 fucking 30 this fucker sends me a text saying that he isn't ready for a goddamn serious relationship & he wasn't expecting to like me as much as he does and he's not ready for that. So what part of that is my fault?

@Capricorn Of course that's not your fault and the guy is a total asrsehole. I appreciate that it is difficult and sometimes maybe even dangerous for women on the internet dating scene.

It's years since I was involved myself and it amused me at the time that women were so careful about giving little information about themselves and being very careful about meeting places. Of course they were just being ultra careful.

I think I just reacted a bit as there is one poster in particular on here who blames all the ills of the world on men.

Good luck

@Capricorn The guy was not completely honest with you. I've done this and said similar things to women in my younger years. He's either in a relationship or he was not really into you. Don't let it bother you, it's his loss and your gain. When I would go out on the prowl, when I was married. I would occasionaly meet a woman that I like more than I thought I would, because I was only out for sex. So that would complcate things with feelings and all. So I had to drop them immediately. I've also been on dates as a single man and things went great but knew the other person was just not what I wanted because of all kind of reasons. I actually don't think we as a society are living and dating in our inate way, we are forcing ourselves to be monogamous because of cultural norms!

My dating life is an F- lol

I'm about to throw in the towel