You know, I did not blame ALL men for what went wrong in my marriage. In fact, I was very anxious to get involved again. After all, I am hornier than I have ever been in my life (and I have always been plenty horny). But since trying to find a decent man this past year, I have come to the conclusion that they actually do want to be hated.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Woa; gross generalization. Hate comes when love fails. Men don't want to be hated any more than women do....let's work on our equality issues, please?
I take a 50-50 approach to failed relationships....I had my issues....they had theres....a famous line in "Cool Hand Luke" sticks in my mind..."what we have here is failure to communicate".
You might want to consider a fairer point of view so you can correct your behaviors before the next "hater" comes along. Please don't assume men hate any more than women do.
And consider what hate is. It really is the opposite of love.
You rarely hate someone who's a stranger....it's often a loved one who "allegedly" betrayed or lied to you (or you to them) so you hate that the love has broken down...and the why is not clear....so you hate that they no longer love you.
Next time consider how you act that leads to the betrayal or the breaking in trust. You may be encouraging the Hate in your partners.
Robecology
Level 9
July 3, 2019
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Indeed....a good, more positive response.
If you think others hate you will end up being bitter and hateful....
So do try to see the glass half full.
I recommend you read any of Ken Keyes Jr.'s books on relationships.
He's got lots of tricks for being positive in this negative world...
Here's a nice website showing some of Ken's quotes (he's now deceased)
I sure as hell don't want to be hated. I can feel bad about myself just fine on my own without someone bashing me. You seem to be choosing the wrong kind of men if that is your experience. Sorry you have been so disappointed.
TomMcGiverin
Level 8
July 3, 2019
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Somebody who is looking for a relationship to combat "horniness" = super big red flag. Mentioning blaming the other sex during a written quest for a relationship = serious red flag. Making the supposition that all members of the opposite sex want to be hated = aggressive red flag.
Deb57
Level 8
July 1, 2019
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I don't know you, but I can tell you without a doubt that most guys don't want to be hated by anyone. However, there are some people whose antipathy towards me serves as a source of pride.
JimG
Level 8
June 30, 2019
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JimG:
@Donotbelieve Thanks.That means a lot.
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