To fellow scientists: How do you deal with people in social settings that speak with authority while doling out woo, bullshit, science denial, and confabulation? I spent some time working as an educator. Spreading correct information and dispelling disinformation is a big part of who I am. But it's not nice always being the person in the group correcting misinformation. I've unfollowed most of the people on FB who follow me for my expert opinion in my area of expertise. I am dismayed that other professional people dish out so much crap! I'm running out of even shallow friends after I find out the weird crap they believe in. Advice?
I'm not a scientist tho I do love it. And i try hard to not come off as a know it all, tho most of the time here in the Deep South I'm right.
Consider, that many people are insecure, may be intimidated by your degree/ level of education, many do often can get defensive (offensive really) with someone challenging them.
At work I would just reply "oh I see." And leave it at that.
In social settings, eye rolls work well.
Someone here mentioned it not the number of friends we have, it's the qualities of the persons we choose as friends that count.
As a layperson, asking a question As If you are truly seeking to understand works Very well, and keep asking.
No. Just a question. What happens when you mix cement with a milkshake? I'm guessing it would make little difference. Cement doesn't like cold or sugar? Or agitation?
After drinking this regularly for a few weeks you'll gain weight and may have constipation problems.
@Fretherne1 I do have a nice rock collection now.
@PondartIncbendog Do it yourself copralites!
Cement is frequently chilled to delay setting up. As mit warms it sets, chilling does not cause any problems. Freezing can make it weaker. Sugar is known to cause problems for setting.
Get a dog, stop talking to people. *note: not a scientist but ive read lots of stuff about dogs on the internet
Keep deleting bullshit believers and add new Atheist friends....get social with Atheists ......what kind of social settings have fools spewing anti-science verbiage?.....if the settings are just neighbors or family; wear a no parking button: " gawd " with a red circle and slash through the gibberish non-word same as German gott or English alleged gods.....if the semi-literates cannot resist parking their faith fallacies upon your feet and ears ....spit and point at your button and just walk away nuff said
I found a group called" Street Epistemology
Fans" which i found looking at the another members groups . And wow web site
and all. This group seeks to put academic
info into civilian hands and minds.
I found discussions with folks sometimes
scary( some times brain washed ) ; yet i care
about them, but don't dare rattle thier status quo.- the site gives guidelines that allow a
"Do no harm " approach to these -so i dont
feed the monster of mis information.
Than you
Sounds Iike the political theatre. Call them out or ignore them.
Donโt find out what crap they believe in.
@CrazyQuilter One trick I used with holistic rubbish is this. "Would you like a drink?"
"Yes please".
I then pour out a smidgin of vodka, empty the glass and then fill it up with water. "Not too strong for you is it?"
@CrazyQuilter I know that feeling. Iโm ok letting people have their delusions but I donโt have enough respect for non critical thinkers to feel really close to them. Crept my step dad. He thinks there are aliens here but heโs not a dumb guy.
@CrazyQuilter, @273kelvin I always wanted to do that in my paleo group because some of them are into homeopathy. I was going to use some poison hemlock and go through the actual process as described in the original homeopathy manual. I donโt think anyone seeing it would buy into it. If they still believed I thought maybe I could make some money selling them water.