I have a niece who sometimes asks those kinds of questions. Her dad and I are atheist. Her mother is not. We usually respond with “I don’t know. What do you believe?” It’s quite effective.

You were good and this can be good too... "There is no heaven and there is no hell. There is only one and limited life and it is up to us how to make it good for us and others."

I've used the same example many times and it has never sunk in. That doesn't mean it won't for your daughter, especially if she's not too grown up yet. But in my experience the indoctrination runs deep and it's difficult to reason people away from it.

I really like your angle on god, very interesting I think. I have a thought to add to that. Let's say, hypothetically, that god of the bible is true. Does the things god did in the bible make him worthy of worship? Absolutely not! Just give that a thought when people talks good and praises their precious god to you. Unbelievable.

You handle that like a true free thinking human, without judgement!

When facts overrule myths then one must conclude that truth is made up of facts, not myths!

fwiw the hell your daughter fears is not in the Bible anyway--believe it or not--but was translated into It by our Angle/Saxon scribes from the Norse concept, which was the closest analogy they had. Gehenna is on earth, and Tartarus is a Greek god, and these were meant to be analogies anyway, not to be taken literally. Loved your answer tho!