To the person messaging me: Yes, I know there are millions of swingers in the world and millions of open marriages. I'm willing to bet your wife isn't aware she is in one, and I'd really like to ask her. Meanwhile, I am far too good to be anybody's side chick. Please take a hike.
I realize that many men just don't care if they are abusing their wives. But we women have a choice. Understand that the man who cheats is a liar. You already know he is lying to his wife, so you'd have to be an utter moron to think he isn't lying to you, too. His wife never did you any harm, don't help some dirtbag abuse her.
Beautifully said! I wish more women would stick together on this behavior, we certainly would all be better off!
Oof! Well, at least he was up front about it? Or was he?
There's no way to tell if anything he ever said was true, but I'm betting against it. Doesn't matter. I'm not attracted to married men.