Is it so difficult to meet a like minded soul who is intellectual, spiritual and sensual and continuously looking for ways to improve ones skills, knowledge and pleasures in life calling out for help.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Someone who's intellectual, someone who's spiritual, someone who's sensual, someone who's continuously looking to improve ones skills... and those four persons must not know one another!
QuidamOutrepont
Level 8
Sep 1, 2019
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What I find is that many people believe they fit this description, or another that is very desirable.
Those who require it, can't seem to find it, and those who feel they have it to offer, are still rejected.
Do we all want more and more while tolerating less and less?
Athena
Level 8
Sep 1, 2019
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We all have great traits, but the one trait everyone wants is: physically attractive. And people who are attractive get all the attention.
I agree that people want to be with someone they find attractive. However, what people find attractive varies from person to person.
People in all shapes and sizes are bonding and procreating. There are also very beautiful people in the world who have been rejected and cheated on... ask Jennifer Aniston and Halle Berry. Both as beautiful as can be with stories of devastating heartbreak.
@Athena Jennifer Aniston and Halle Berry are not good examples - they each have other factors working against them. And each of them continue to have opportunities which they can turn into success or failure; their lives aren't over. The rest of us are, as you suggested, simply not desirable.
It is difficult. This is why I settle for a great pair of legs. 
Sticks48
Level 9
Sep 1, 2019
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I have great legs. But there's a crazy woman that goes with them. LOL
@sewchick57 There generally is.
Hiking and running develops my leg muscles.
@LiterateHiker Very lovely 
What matters more than anything when it comes to your online dating profile? One word- Photos. Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates. Or not.
You have 3 seconds to make a good impression. People will see your main photo as a tiny pic the size of a saltine cracker on their cell phone screens. If your main photo is not clear, bright and attractive, they move on. A genuine smile is inviting, warm and attractive. People want to see your eyes and smile.
Please get new photos taken outdoors for better lighting.
Your main photo should be a head-and-shoulder shot, showing you SMILING and looking at the camera. You also need one full body shot, again taken outdoors and smiling.
Show your pearly whites! People think nice teeth = healthy mouth = good kisser. Every man I met with closed-mouth photos had horrid teeth: rotten, missing, black stumps, yellow, crooked and/or breath that stank of rotten meat. I can’t imagine kissing that. Ugh.
Other pictures should show you outdoors, doing activities you enjoy. No hats, sunglasses, alcohol or stupid poses. You must be in every picture.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Sep 1, 2019
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Very pertinent and very observant comments. Thanks.
I'm failing at each of those, and consequently getting zero responses. It's my next project.
Crest White Strips brightens my teeth. Coffee makes my teeth gray. Give it a try.
@LiterateHiker I need to learn to smile, or nobody will notice.
Is that a question or are you offering that?
CaroleKay
Level 8
Aug 31, 2019
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Yes. I thought I am capable of offering and receiving all three...what about you
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