I don't think its cool to negatively judge people who choose to make sacrifices, even really hard ones. Not everyone has the priviledge to walk away.
Because "sacrifices" and martyrdom make everyone around the martyr happy? I did that, actually, for over 25 years, and it was a Huge waste of EVERYBODY'S time!!!!!!!!!!
@AnneWimsey your experiences
Yes alot of people encouraged me to divorce but they did not have to be an autistic single mom afterwards. Not saying I regret it, but there is more to it than "being free".
Where the heck was this advice 30+years ago?!?!!
Right ! It wasn't there, but did it anyway !