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What does Christmas mean to you?

Well for me, I don't think about it much as a religious holiday. Even though I grew up Catholic and went to Catholic schools and indoctrination. I left that world in 8th grade when I went to public high school. I didn't even think about the religious aspects again until I graduated from college and as a single man moved to Lynchburg Va for my first professional job.

There I was greeted by everyone with, what church did I belong to. I had to hide my atheism. I seldom spoke about it except with some Swedish people I met.

I finally escaped Lynchburg 20 years ago and moved to a more diverse, more educated city.

Now , its a time of year that I reflect on life. I am 63 and will soon retire. I think about what I have and haven't done in life and reach out to past colleagues. I send them emails and call them to tell them what an impact they had on my life.

In the past I recounted times and places where I had treated people in a way that I wasn't proud of. Years ago, I reached out to those people and apologized for my actions.

Before my mother and father passed , I made sure to add an extra visit. I don't enjoy at all the mad dash for excessive consumerism and the social demands for decorations. My wife enjoys her secular decorations...and being a good fellow, I help albeit a bit grudgingly.

I make sure to see and tell my grown children how much I love them, and spoil my grandson.

I contemplate the state of the world and how discouraging its future seems to be.

I make sure I take several hour or two walks and listen to new music or just the sound of the wind and resolve to take better care of my health next year.

And lastly I am always mindful of the people that contribute in any way to my life.

Where everyone else is dashing to spend money, its more a period of reflection for me. Colour me green.

Bigwavedave 8 Dec 12
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Hi there, Bigwavedave. For whatever reason I can't send a pm to you, so this is just an FYI that LiterateHiker even posted about ED "a woman's perspective" ... She must really hate men. ... I find it impossible to believe that she expects men to be attracted to her considering the stuff she posts!

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What does Christmas mean to me????? When I was working it was a paid holiday. Now that I'm retired it is meaningless.

@nicknotes hows retirement?

Great....@Bigwavedave

@nicknotes any pointers, I am just several months away......

Make sure you have enough income to cover ALL your expenses when you have to rely on your pension. @Bigwavedave

@nicknotes pension !!! Lol right

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Christmas is nothing more than the Catholic Church's attempt to modify their holy days to fit with the midwinter festivals held by many so-called pagan religions. Christ, if he existed, was most likely born in February, not December according to most biblical scholars. Most of our so-called Christmas traditions are blatant ripoffs of Nordic, Old English, and Gallic traditions that predate Christianity's militant proselytizing into Western Europe. The holly wreath, Mistletoe, the Christmas Tree, the Yule log, Father Christmas, all are the Church's way to insinuate themselves into other religions. It's a common method of absorbing a native culture into their 'flock'.

@sterlingdean Indeed I am familiar with that fact. I was more interested in peoples experiences and thoughts today...

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Time for a bunch of morons to spend money they don't have to buy things for people that they don't need or appreciate.

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Toys for the toy god time

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Christmas doesen't mean anything to me. I avoid all the holiday nonsense.

@justaskme left to my own devices, I think that would be me.

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I'll let Steve Martin take it from here.

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I loved Christmas when I was growing up. My dad was a truck driver who made a living and not much more and my mom was a stay at home mom, but we always got a nice toy for Christmas. Dad hauled produce, and would always have apples, oranges, pecans by the bag full and I specifically remember one year getting a pair of cap pistols, a holster and a cowboy hat. It was never so much about religion. It was more about food and family and I remember those Christmasses fondly. I still don't think of Christmas as a religious holiday, and I enjoy it with my grandkids.

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