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Conway, AR

It's so hard to meet people in the South, who share my beliefs. I sometimes feel like I'll wind up married to my career if something doesn't give.

Does anyone else feel this way, living in their neck of the woods?

nutrition_nerd 7 Mar 26
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I have lived in Arkansas my entire life. I have never met a girl that was not religious. I have always tried to put myself out there but I have no interest in redneck hobbies so I never go anywhere. Politically I am best described as neutral, its all out of our control and in the hands of social elitists that only care about , not the country.
The hardest thing for me to deal with is knowing there are others out there that think like I do, I just have no idea how to meet them. Most end up finding their way through various social circles. I have none.

Maybe we should create our own. I know there are like minded people in this area. There is just no way to get them to congregate. There is the Conway Freethinkers Society, though. I have considered meeting up with that group, I just havent had the time lately

@nutrition_nerd Another thing is its mostly older people and I am not sure I would identify with them either. Most nonreligious organisations end up being very liberal.

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I think there are more atheists up here in the NE states, but yeah, sometimes I wonder if I'll meet the right woman, a woman who is a heathen like me.

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Yes. When most of the women in this region are looking for a "good Christian man" it feels pretty lonely. I've met very few who don't believe in this area. When I talk about trying to meet someone who shares my views, and interests my co-workers tell me I should go to church to find someone. I would almost do that if I didn't think it would be so disingenuous.

Yes, my friend! Same here. I am on the other side of Little ROck and the dating scene with our beliefs is pretty sad ;(

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Yeah. I say "I'm not Christian" and they react as if I said I wasn't human.

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I'm a transplant in AR too. The culture here seems like a taxonomy of reactionaries itchin' to react and blue dots feeling blue, but existing with good higher ed, food, healthcare, and water.

I would suggest that there is room for and the need for both liberal and secular thought in AR.

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It's was kinda lonely until I started looking around then it seemed like they were everywhere.

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Kitty!

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Yes indeed! This place (Vicksburg) is a backward haven.

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Kinda. But I like it here. There are a lot of people, I guess, I just don’t like most of them.

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