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Two years on this thing, and no closer to meeting someone now, then two years ago! Do women on this site (in SO. CA!) even EXIST?

Imatheistically 7 Dec 27
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The dating component of this site probably lacks the requisite volume of members to be a game changer for anyone regardless of geography, unless you're willing to conduct a LDR of some kind. If I were looking, I'd use it just in case I got lucky but it would not be my entire strategy. It is the Match.coms and eHarmony.coms of this world that have the necessary critical mass, but it's a mass consisting of mostly nutters. It is a problem.

Well said. It is because those sites have critical masses of membership that they are able to charge money for memberships, not because their service is high quality, let me assure you of that. Their service to members and the quality of their profile formats continue to get worse, because they are all owned by the same huge conglomerates. That way they have monopoly power and no real competition that would force them to provide better service to members. Too bad they are not regulated by the FTC for monopoly practices or regulated like a utility like wireless companies.

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I've not seen many women here from California.... I think they're too busy going to the beaches 😊😋

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If they don't exist on this site it means 1 of 2 things:
They're far to intellegent to come here
or
They're far to stupid to come here

Either way I think we can all agree we dodged a bullet.

But I'm pretty sure they exist here.

1of5 Level 8 Dec 27, 2019

I am far too good to date anyone who loves to hear himself talk but can barely spell correctly, sure sign of either ignorance or arrogance and I avoid both. Dude, really, you have nothing better to do? What a sad life you have.

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I am on the east coast but no one near me but hopeful

bobwjr Level 10 Dec 27, 2019
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Evidently not. We're all on the east coast.

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Ive heard of a few members meeting and being happy, but only one couple who was local to eachother. I think people on this site tend to be older and set in their ways, excessively picky, and too cynical to give people a chance.

We especially can't stand crass conservative people who crash our revered atheist hangout.

@ReadyforaChange what is "we" doing here??

@MarkiusMahamius What are YOU doing here? Breitbart and Fox use too many big words sweetie?

@ReadyforaChange you cut me down so low, I could commit suicide by jumping off a dime. Damn!

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Join the freaking club... I've been on here for three years too and still have yet to meet even one woman in person from my local area, even tho I tried messaging a handful of them in the first few months I was on here...

The majority of women from dating sites don't want to meet.

@twill I don't know about that, but it definitely seems the case with Agnostic.com, at least the women from Iowa, even tho their profiles say they are open to meeting men. What is your basis or reason for saying most women on dating sites don't actually want to meet anyone? Are you saying they are just on there to feed their egos with the attention or entertain themselves?

@TomMcGiverin I probably don't even get a response from 10% of the ones that I reached out to

@twill My rate is about the same, but I don't assume it's because the women aren't interested in meeting men. I am more inclined to believe it's because I have so much competition out there in my local area on sites like Match and that the women are instead interested in meeting guys that are better looking than me, appear to have more money, and, most importantly, are more a part of the cultural mainstream here than me, which is something that comes across pretty clearly in my profile essay.

@TomMcGiverin Good points

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