You have a right to set standards for what you are looking for regardless of your personal appearance.. personally, I prefer men who are physically fit...

Everybody has the right to standards, it's something you have to live with and your life

Everybody has preferences and standards. The only person who will suffer if your standards are unrealistic or too narrow is you, but there are consequences to settling for less than what will make you happy.

I wouldn't day it's wrong for an overweight guy to have high standards. I would call it unproductive or unrealistic.

I'm an overweight guy - I'm 35 pounds overweight according to Weight Watchers standards. I used to be 85 pounds over. I'm working on it.

I see nothing unreasonable in your desired standards. Regardless of anyone's weight , we each have a right to our own preferences. Of course, that doesn't always mean we'll get the opportunity to fully satisfy those desires !
Never hurts to try and shoot for the stars ! Best of luck !

We each have the freedom to choose as we will. Sometimes knowledge of those criteria, if/when people find out about them has consequences.

My personal experience has been that if there is no physical attraction at the beginning, no amount of "working at it" will make there be. Some have gotten plenty angry at me for not being attracted.

We are all entitled to have whatever standards we choose regarding who we will date. The ? is whether your standards are realistic in allowing you to have any success in finding someone where there is mutual attraction without some sort of transactional situation like a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement. I am not at all implying that is what you are after, it's just that those sort of arrangements are the most common situation in which one person brings a much more attractive appearance to the table than the man involved. All I can say is good luck...

We all have our preferences, but I try to go beyond a person's appearance to see who they are as a whole person. I've struggled with my weight most of my adult life, so if my appearance is the deal-breaker for someone then I deserve better than that.

I got flack for a relationship( successful) with a beautifull
lady . Her children encouraged it ; It was long and beneficial
for all ; my point being some folks " outside " never take
chemistry into the equation. Use intuition to arrive at your
own needs and compatability. Seeing who a person really
is and can be is a bonding that ONLY happens between the
couple- others are always opinionated and biased.( her
and my family had objections- they were wrong).
Over time (and responsibilities) our search changes - but
pay attention to your inner voice( you understand your limits
and prefrences).Our judgment is not perfect::: revise it
over time.But it reflects the closest we could live with.
Thanks

1st thought is if you don't want someone bigger than you than what right do you have to bitch about them having a size limit you exceed?

2nd thought, if you find someone you actually are compatable with and her bmi is above what you want, you don't deserve her and she probably dodges a bullet by you rejecting her.