I go to my local Ethical Humanist Society occasionally cause the folks there are kind, have a social consciousness, some of them do good work, yada yada yada. But the "lectures" are as boring and sanctimonious as a blabbermouth local pastor would likely be. Yes, yes, I've tried the Unitarians, et al., as well. Same deal. Perhaps the problem is with homo sapiens in groups-it seems to be a hopeless enterprise. There's always some grandiose chatterbox giving a look-at-me show, no matter where you go. Oh well, there's always Fernando Pessoa, Marcus Aurelius, and Kafka.