"Be a lady", they said.....
I am so glad my daughters never heard in our home this lady shit.....both career Atheist professional women are happily married and avoided the "goth" dark look in this video
I started saying, out of nowhere, about 50 years ago, "I ain't no lady, I hate "ladies", but I never knew why until I saw this, which made me feel like bursting into tears.
And yes, I wasted a lot of my life being "a lady" even when I thought I wasn't.