Whats on your mind when having sex? This is a dating site and this inquiring mind would like to know what others are thinking when engaged in sexual activity.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Depends on who I am engaged with, and how long we have been together...or even if I am with someone at all
AnneWimsey
Level 9
Apr 7, 2018
2
Yes ma'am. Thanks for sharing.
How long do I have before he busts? ?
Gotta strategize for my O ?
MarlaPaine
Level 6
Apr 7, 2018
9
Lol, you are hilarious. Thanks for sharing ma'am.
Lmao
Me: "I hope he doesn't come in 2 seconds."
Sarahroo29
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
8
may your hopes always be your reality
@nvrnuff It's always in 1 minute with him.
now I am thinking of one of your previous posts@sarahroo29
@SilverDollarJedi We rarely see each other, so he's not had sex in a long time. Once he masturbated a few times before seeing me, and came before entering me!
@btroje Lol. Edging.
@SilverDollarJedi IDK or care. It's been over 1 month now... ?
Thanks for sharing, ma'am. Hopefully you will find person that will suite your needs.
@SilverDollarJedi Is there a pun in this comment or what? Lol.
@JayJackson suit vs suite.
@Sarahroo29 fixing it.
@JayJackson Oh, I thought it was on purpose.
"I really don't understand why everyone thinks this is so great I'd much rather be playing video games right now. Please don't stick your tongue down my throat please don't stick your tongue down my throat please dont...dang it. Maybe if I bang him REALLY well we can be done sooner and I can get a pizza. Oh I hope he orders pizza...mmmmm" pretty much
LadyAlyxandrea
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
9
@SACatWalker I'm really not joking lmao
Yes, video games are awesome! If only sex had secret pipes that I could take to get to the end like skipping worlds in Super Mario. Now I'm gonna have the Mario theme song in my head during the next session lol
@MsNobody DARN IT!! Me to.
Thanks for your comment.
I think about sex. Is she enjoying what I'm doing right now? No? Move on to something else. Nope, she didn't like that either. Try gently -- yep! That did it! Now just don't screw it up.
ReBrew2115
Level 6
Apr 7, 2018
5
Pun intended? Thanks sir for sharing.
Mutual gratification. Quality is more important than how long you can go.
I close my eyes and think of England.
Otterpop
Level 6
Apr 7, 2018
8
England? Thanks for sharing.
long live the Queen
What a wonderful escape! lol
Or possibly Brexit. There is a buzz killer right there.
Me too. Tea and scones with clotted cream are enough to make me cream (figuratively) Plus the accent and history and...well Tom Hiddleston
It’s like a cloud of beastly primitive nonthought.
NothinnXpreVails
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
7
Winner, winner!! Yes!!
Thinking during sex, I try to avoid it completely.
nvrnuff
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
7
Winner!! Thanks for sharing.
It's been so long I forgot.
Tomfoolery33
Level 9
Apr 7, 2018
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@qwertykeyboard Nope.
Wouldn't memories be better than a 'fix?'
Like riding a bike. Saddle up partner. Find a willing partner and engage.
@Freedompath It depends on what the "fix" is.
@qwertykeyboard Yeah it is legal there, but that's not what I'm looking for. I want the personal connection,
@JayJackson I wish it was that easy.
@tnorman1236 not what @qwertykeyboard, had in mind!
To me, it's a very good time to remain in the moment , and think of nothing else except your partner, mutual sensations, sounds, and stimulation. yes ...
evergreen
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
7
Hey now!! YES!! Thanks for sharing.
Are the neighbours home?
Why won't she shut up?
oh crap, now she has woken the neighbours.
Rugglesby
Level 8
Apr 7, 2018
5
Lol, winning you are.
hopefully not thinking that much
btroje
Level 9
Apr 7, 2018
3
YEP and YEP. Thanks for sharing.
Sex. Then...sex. Sex.
Christiep77
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
5
Thanks for sharing.
Ooooo...that feels good....don't back off....I'm coming....YES YES YES....Ahhhhhhh.....
Okay, now it's his turn.... Sheesh, this is taking forever... I'd like to stick my foot in his chest and kick him off.... come ON, already .....Maybe if I get busy doing Kegels.... I'll try more dirty talk.... Is he getting close?....
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Apr 8, 2018
5
Ok. OK!! The "KEGEL" inclusion.....SORCERY! ! Lol. Thanks for sharing.
JayJackson, Love your funny comment!
For accuracy, I added: "I'll try more dirty talk."
Good thing I have high energy, useful with sex. High energy people don't give up and push for the summit.
@LiterateHiker Umm, I cannot think of a suitable reply... The blood has left my cognitive area.
Oh no! Now I have to Google Kegel. I hope I don't regret this 
JimmyM, Kegel exercises for women mean squeezing the pelvic floor muscles. [webmd.com]
must be circumcised ,taking too long.
Older men spent decades trying to delay their orgasm. Now that's a problem.
JayJackson, In retrospect, my mental process was: "don't back off...don't back off....crap, he's backing off... that's better....
Hope it gets better..I really should've practiced my faking...Not THERE sir...Well, that was unexpected...Nope!...I love this song...Should I say something...Only a couple more minutes to go...I could go for a burger...
MsNobody
Level 5
Apr 7, 2018
5
Glad I'm not the only one lmao. "This is an uncomfortable position. OW ow"
Thanks for the comment, ma'am.
I pretty much think about sex while having sex...lol
jamrock876
Level 6
Apr 7, 2018
3
Thanks for sharing.
Like a good artist on his craft, my mind is on the subject.
GipsyOfNewSpain
Level 9
Apr 7, 2018
4
Winner! Winner!!
I'm trying to remember the safe word.
Secretguy
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
4
YES SIR!!
Depends on how good the sex is.
If it's really REALLY bad, it wondering when it's going to end. If it's really good, it's concentrating on the sensations. In between, depends on how my day is going.
kiramea
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
4
I need some clarification, because i have seen this sentence over and over. What is good/bad sex? The difference between the two? Thanks for sharing.
Sorry, not going to give you jack off material. Also, it's subjective. What may be good/bad to me may not be to someone else.
@kiramea I think you may have too high of a opinion of yourself. Not looking for "jack off" material and its obvious that good/bad is subjective.
@JayJackson I have no idea then what you want. The only way to describe what you are asking is to give all the gory details, and that is something that I'm not going to do.
If you truly don't know the difference between good and bad sex then I don't know what to tell you.
@kiramea Its obvious that you don't know what to convey. A person can go into detail WITHOUT THE GORE. Something akin to ,"Its just a feeling" would suffice. See, now you know. You are welcomed. Look at" fauxname" comments for further proof.
I'm usually focusing on giving my sweetie pleasure and making sure I get my pleasure at the same time. Luckily, he and I are in our 60s , so it doesn't last a super long time , but we get the job done--lol. Going at it a long time is tedious. So foreplay,,,then cuddling after. Keeping a good mindset.
crazycat329
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
3
Nothing to do with his age, its YOU that gets that motor revved up. Good for you both. Thanks for sharing ma'am.
@SACatWalker Be well ma'am.
@SACatWalker First, your pic clearly depicts what sex you are, I made an error and the comment wasnt directed towards you.
SECOND and most important is that you arent in a position to judge my level of thanks/gratitude. What MISERABLE person thinks that thanking someone for their comment is overdoing it? Oh, you are the miserable one. If you don't like my gratitude don't respond.
Lastly, I will respond to whomever i like and "be well" is a common retort to someone who responds to you. If your education or life has limited you and you just don't know, NOW YOU DO. Hopefully you will take this bit of knowledge and use it for your betterment. Thanks for sharing.
If it's really good I'm caught up in the moment and just enjoying it.
Islandgurl
Level 6
Apr 7, 2018
3
Yes!!
Hahaha. Absolutely nothing. That's the appeal. Basically the only time my brain shuts up.
OpposingOpposum
Level 9
Apr 7, 2018
4
Zen state? Thanks for sharing, Ma'am.
Alternates betweeen executing my devious & sensual plan to have my partner make certain sounds/statements during a rousing bout of slap & tickle and enjoying the sensations of being on the recieving end of my partner's equally well thought out plan...& trying to remember to use my words & not chi strikes when overly stimulated.
SallyInStitches
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
3
Christ in a sidecar, that sounds like hard work!
@Palindromeman hey, gotta keep a little spice in going in a relationship. Amaxing what hot chocolate & cherry popsicles can do & do not get me started on metholated cough drops.
I think that i am in love...LOL. Just kidding or AM I? Thanks for sharing.
@SallyInStitches Yep, that is clearly where I went wrong. Well, a part of it, anyway. I must keep cherry popsicles in mind for future reference.
@Palindromeman lol. Has to be both... or sone kind of hot bev. Mouth gets hot, theres some fun, now mouth gets cold & the fun changes. Ooo its hot again...
@SallyInStitches I am so out of practice it is not funny. I know the whole "it's like riding a bike, you never forget" thing but I tend to think that's bullshit. The longer you are out of circulation, the easier it is to stay out of circulation.
@Palindromeman that is true & you tend to become a bit more discerning in choices. Lets be honest, if its just sex, that can be had anywhere. When what you want is a connection on a multitude of levels, that comes with time & familiarity & trust. &, IMO, its difficult to find people who are looking for more than just a FWB these days
@SallyInStitches True dat. My favourite conversations these days are with complete strangers. There's no backstory, no "how are you doing". Just clear blue skies. Don't get me wrong, I like a good shag as much as the next man or woman, but that deeper connection? That is gold. And, maybe by dire circumstance and fateful cock-up I'll have that opportunity for a physical hook up again. But I'd rather an earthy conversation and a glass of good wine.
A mass of baby spiders.
Anemynous
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
3
Yikes!! Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for that mental image. I'm off to have a brandy and read some Proust to try to forget it.
My partner.
What's the reaction to what I'm doing.
Like dance, it's one of the few times my mind shuts out the multitude of thoughts.
RobAnybody
Level 7
Apr 7, 2018
3
Kinda like being in a ZEN state? Thanks for sharing sir.
@JayJackson Very like a zen state.
You're welcome sir.
I got the best advice when I was about 18 or so. Focus on the feelings and the sensations. I think it's great advice. When I'm having sex, I'm very into it and nothing else.
Nadeya09
Level 3
Apr 7, 2018
3
Ditto. Focus on the feeling and enjoying it.
WINNER!! Thanks for sharing.
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