How Women Reject Someone Nicely
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Not all men deserve to be rejected nicely. You subtly or overtly abuse me in any way, be it emotionally, psychologically, financially, etc. I will not be nice. If you don't want a war with me, then don't start a damn fight. I am not a damn christian. I will not turn my cheek to let you slap it some more! fck that.
demifeministgal
Level 8
Aug 23, 2020
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I suspect that works for both genders..? It is nice not having to turn away the overt behavior men are/ were programmed to project. But there’s a creepy, stealthy feel women use in order to achieve the same results.. Like all else, some are welcome, some not ~
Varn
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
0
I couldn't find the page.....
nicknotes
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
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@MissKathleen Thanks for bringing me along.....good post. How about #11...I'm on quarantine, because I probably have the virus.
@MissKathleen I don't have the virus. I was just adding another excuse to end a relationship.
Here's a few more for women who are more blunt.
-- My vagina is chemically toxic. It's like Chernobyl down there.
-- The last three men I was intimate with have never been found.
-- The very idea of you touching me makes me dry as dust.
-- I know I look forty-two but I'm really thirteen.
-- I only copulate with human beings, sorry.
-- I'm dying and my final wish is to not have sex with you, even if I live.
-- I might have grudge sex with you...if I lost a bet to never have sex with you.
Sgt_Spanky
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
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@MissKathleen Your participation in this site becomes more dreary and humorless with each post you make. Didn't I once request that you block me? I think I did. Please do so.
@MissKathleen I think you are a very special woman.
@MissKathleen We clearly rub each other the wrong way so I think it's for the best. Please block me and thank you in advance.
I love those but some still won't give up
@MissKathleen No, YOU block ME so you're not provoked by my posts. I don't care what you post. so me blocking you accomplishes nothing. I thought I was being clear -- YOU block ME. Please do it.
@whiskywoman Each of those comes with a money back guarantee to get the point across to even the dumbest guy.
@MissKathleen Well, I tried my best. You're just going to have to put up with the things I say and I don't want to hear any more bitching about it.
@MissKathleen Whatever, dearie. At this point you're just looking for a fight. Not taking the bait. We're done here.
@MissKathleen Last word.
@Sgt_Spanky some are pretty persistent until you insult their manhood then they lash out and claim they were not really interested just being complimentary
Personally, I found some responses funny. But then I may be harassed more in my online dating experiences than miss kathleen is. And, having experienced that shit my ENTIRE life through no fault or choosing of my own, will NOT tolerate that crap from potential dates.
@whiskywoman You can't go wrong insulting a guy's manhood. Any other put-down can be disregarded but insult his manhood and you could possibly send him into therapy or to Africa to kill something big.
@demifeministgal I'm always willing to help a lady in distress -- well, not MissKathleen -- so if any of my diatribes can help you in an online or face to face encounter, feel free to use them. I'm good at insults, like an Alfred Lord Tennyson of put-downs.
@Sgt_Spanky some times you have to do what works
was that a subtle reference to men with napoleon complexes? heh
I just smile and show off my ring located on my right hand, most of them believe I’m married after that
sandrarocks83
Level 7
Aug 22, 2020
1
Yep
doesn't stop many
Just say no... Unless it's unexpected from a friend...
Cutiebeauty
Level 9
Aug 22, 2020
1
for some you have to be an asshole or they won't stop
whiskywoman
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
4
@MissKathleen fight assholes with assholes? I've been known to get out of pocket..
@MissKathleen out of pocket is slang like off the hook.. 
the meanings are similar though
@MissKathleen probably.. I thought it referred to billiards.. Playing someone out of pocket..
@MissKathleen ah, it has many definitions then...
"Nice try," as I told my teenage daughter.
Men rarely accept a rejection from women graciously.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Aug 22, 2020
5
"Why don't we have sex anyway?" a lawyer asked. When he stepped out of his car, my heart sank. He looked like a troll doll. Wild, bushy white hair, enormous belly and short legs.
And that mouth! He launched into an hour-long monologue while I made lunch. He told horrifying stories about domestic violence victims he represented, even a baby. With tears in my eyes, I told him to stop.
After lunch, we sat on the couch. He began stroking my neck. I pushed him away.
"I'm sorry, but I'm not attracted to you," I said. "It's not happening."
As a lawyer, he presented his case. On his phone, he showed me photos of his ex-wife and ex-girlfriends to prove slender women were attracted to him. It didn't work.
"I can't believe I drove four hours for nothing," he complained before leaving.
He had posted old photos taken too far away on a horse. Lesson learned.
There are words for guys like him.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Aug 22, 2020
2
"How am I going to get through this?" I thought when he stepped out of his car.
Before meeting, he was great on the phone. Typical of men.
It stunned me that he was incapable of having a normal, give-and-take conversation. I asked him about it.
"I talk and you listen," he said. "Then you talk."
As a lawyer he's so used to speechifying, he can't turn it off.
And then there’s this in response to an advance by a man: “LOL”
Bobbyzen
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
2
Exactly, @Cutiebeauty
@MissKathleen Et tu, Brute?
@MissKathleen don’t apologize. You gave me a good laugh
Edited my typo
How about, "I've made it clear I'm not interested, now go find a jack yard to back off in."
Willow_Wisp
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
4
You can park in a driveway, and drive on a parkway, right? Lol
"Fuck off Bozo" always worked on me.
jlynn37
Level 8
Aug 22, 2020
3
men hit on you
I read your answer wrong lol sorry
@whiskywoman It has happened. Being a 100% Heterosexual, I simply thank them for finding me attractive, say I have no interest in males and wish them well. I have always taken it as a compliment the same as I would coming from a female.
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