Run away - don't walk away, just run - from that douchebag. That is so super creepy I cannot even begin to describe it. Ick ick ick. Did I mention ick?

Nope. Nopeity Nope Nope Noping Nopitudes of Nope.

His actions are telling you who he is right from the start.

No you are not overreacting. Trust your gut.

As I'm sure many in the comments have said (haven't checked), guy's a douchebag. Move on.

You're lucky to find out so quickly that you don't need to see this guy ever again... He's trouble.

Can't understand how you (or any sensible man in similar circumstances) would even consider the possibility of another encounter.

What is often called a 'first date' I think to be a bit inaccurate. When the two people don't know each other, also applies to 'blind dates', it seems more accurately a meeting. (screening) To learn if the person is polite, has other good manners, shares any common life passions, has any interesting views, in agreement or not and shows interest and respect, agreeing or not.

To me, this is far ahead of a time for issuing personal appearance evaluations and how they might bear on whether to be 'seen with' another person. People also telegraph as much about motivations and their priorities by the questions and unsolicited satements as they do by answers to questions..

This guy began testing you right away for manipulation potential and by that alone showed himself to be a possible abuser.

He’s showing you who he is. Trust your instincts. If anyone’s action cause you to question your own feelings that is a huge sign to stay away from that person.

Well I hope you look better than your picture, because you seem to be missing eyes, nose and mouth.

The first part could of been nice..Should of followed it up with

"Granted your pictures looked great but wow!"

I don't like this guy, lol.

You are not over-reacting if you aren't attracted to men who feel appearance is important (to give his friends a good impression when you are out with him). If he meant it as a compliment, it was a self centered phrasing. The very classic "You look great." never fails to flatter a date.

Also, a first date is never an opportunity to cop a feel unless the person invited you to do it. Knowing and respecting personal boundaries is an essential part to healthy relationships.

I say NEXT!!! Trust your gut cause it’s screaming NEXT!!!! Too many red flags... Too many passive aggressive moves... are you looking for a challenge or possibilities... gotta kiss a lot of frogs

I'm not understanding how "You look better than your picture." is an insult.

He's not worth your time.

I think I’d feel the same way as you do if someone said that to me....and copping a feel?... I think that’s totally disrespectful. He sounds arrogant and no i don’t think you’re over reacting.

If he "copped a feel" when you hugged him, why would you want to see him again?

Goodbye

If he made you feel like a "carpet remnant" on your first date, it does not bode well for any improvement moving forward.
He already thinks he's better than you. That's going to get worse.
He doesn't respect boundaries. He already used a hug to cop a feel.
This is a guy who probably wouldn't take "no" for answer.
The red flags are big, and flapping vigorously. Pay attention to them.

Many men are generally awkward with language. Stumble tongues..I allow some leeway before flailing their flesh and hanging it in a tree to display as a trophy.

The inappropriate touching is another thing entirely.

Common advice is that unless there is a major dealbreaker from the first date, you should go on a second date. That being said, I would consider groping a major dealbreaker.

I have spent 69+ years making Terrible choices, just horrible, and even I would run like hell from this a-hole! Coping a feel during a hug on first meeting is egotistical to the Max, and his comments reinforce that!

No it is not an overreaction. It is a "pick-up-line" line. Backhanded compliments to get you to question yourself.

Probably good to move on from that. I mean your picture is so..... well who knows? I can’t speak from a ladies side of the discussion, but from my standpoint I have an honest current picture of myself. It is clearly good enough to ward off women and responses to PM's.?

Congrats on your milestone, @Citronella! I'm thinking if he had done anything positive, you would have added that so, no. Your instincts are strong. He was a dry run, a rehearsal, just a little dating practice, and a jerk as well. So, out he goes and on with the real thing!

Also, I wouldn't give much credence to his opinion of your photo, what with his passive-aggressive, dominating insults, so don't worry about it.