I would say to the person "Look at me Sue, you have a problem here. Would you like to talk about it" What happens next would depend on her. If she accepts that she has a problem, there may be a possibility for our future (I'm really good at clearing, cleaning and organising the house and great at DIY) I also accept that she may continue to be untidy and that I would have to treat that as normal. Of course, she would have other positive qualities which I found attractive, in the first place. I know three people who are hoarders and have their home in a messy cluttered state. Two of these do not want anyone to interfere with their "things". The other one would be happy if someone took charge of the home.
I can understand a mess, but that is filth. I highly doubt that I would stick around.
You would if you leant on one of the surfaces !!!
@Nickbeee LOL!! Best laugh I've had today!
@Nickbeee That was hilarious!
@Indubitably I'm really sympathetic to such things to be honest but it was just there in my head haha!!! ) good good lol
@HippieChick58 You said you wouldn't say anything to any body!
LOL!!