Unsolicited Dick Pics: let me explain why you should not send them, heterosexual gentlemen. Ask yourself, if a male friend sent me one, what would i do? Or, if i sent one to a heterosexual male acquaintance, what should i expect Him to do?
Then, DON'T DO IT!
I am the least socially developed person here and EVEN I know better than sending dick picks.
On the other hand, most of us men love to receive nudes from women. The difference is clear: women's bodies are beautiful, men's bodies are not.
It's a sad commentary on the guy who has so little ability when it comes to conversation That the only hope he has left is "maybe a picture of my dick will impress her". i have never sent an unsolicited dick pic. However on the other side of the coin if any women want to send unsolicited "tit pics" I will not complain.
Seriously. Don't send me a picture of your junk unless you want me to rate it on a 1 - 5 scale.
Ummm, pretty sure that ratings scale should extend (!!!!) to negative numbers.....
@AnneWimsey my scores will be geared toward creating self-esteem issues.
You're wasting your time @AnneWimsey upon INCELs .... they are not gentle they are not men they are ENTITLEMENT boys feeling they own visitation rights to many vaginae.... IN CEL is short for INvoluntary CELibate ...in their insane narcissistic world women and girls owe them sexual favors despite their anti-social behaviour
Sending you a penis photo is insulting you like Governor Clinton demanding Paula Jones to : " suck it " while unzipping his pants in an official Arkansas State Highway Commission Convention hotel room exposing his bent ugly penis to a state highway worker abrogating her workplace rights to be free of sexual harassment fearing for her safety and job she nonetheless ran out of the room after being ordered into the room by the Governor William Jefferson Blythe alias Clinton
I’m afraid you’re setting the bar too low for many men!
No, no, worked in a shipyard for 13 years, amongst 20,000 + men who did not always know a woman was in their vicinity. Enlightening, but I got over it......
Anybody who does that is a sexual predator imho. Texas just passed a law against it. I'm not usually lockstep with Texas but in this case I am. [insider.com]
I'm a Texan and I hadn't realized that. Good for Bumble.
I am still of the mind that you should never send them, but women at work talk about them, share them, and have admitted to sleeping with a guy because of them. So, this is not a one-sided problem. If it never worked, guys would probably stop, but since it does, dudes are going to play those odds.
I have worked in about 30 places in my life, and never, not once, has any conversation gone like that, not even in the ladies' restrooms in a shipyard. These ladies at your work are "shinin' you on"!
It’s like the story about the guy that walks around asking random beautiful women if they would like to fuck. His buddy says “does that work?” He answers 19 out of twenty times he gets a negative reaction, from being smacked in the face to just ignored, but that one out of 20 that says yes makes it all worthwhile.
Perhaps it is true for your generation but it's certainly was not true for mine. I foolishly posted my email when I signed up for Facebook and some men from my generation sent me sick dick pics. I immediately blocked them but I should have reported them.
@Lorajay come on. Creeps always existed, they just didn’t have access to a forum like they do now. In “my” day or yours (we are not that far apart) if you wanted to expose yourself you had to wear a trench coat and risk being arrested or worse by going in public and flashing unsuspecting women. Now, with the Internet, you take a digital picture and can send it to millions of women around the world in seconds with little risk of retribution. And still get whatever joy shocking the women provides. Like so many things in the digital age, it didn’t create idiots and evil, it just gave them a way to communicate and meet each other while exposing their mental disease to a much wider audience.
@Barnie2years I didn't mean to imply that my generation didn't have perverts.I was really trying to say that my generation did not talk about it at work and date the perverts. I obviously only implied that instead of saying it. I've often wondered how dick pics can give the pervert as much satisfaction since they can't actually see the shock that doing it in person provides. I was flashed on the Riverwalk in San Antone many years ago and it frightened me as much as shocked me because when I turned around he was playing with himself and I didn't realize that was often part of the deal. My reaction was anger but I guess any reaction is what they want.
@AnneWimsey I don't know what to tell you, but they're not putting me on. They had the pictures saved on their phones and I watched them show each other. They marveled at the size, which I assume it likely an important part of a dick pic bringing you success. These guys aren't doing it to shock people, they're doing it because it gets them laid.
Several years ago I had someone tell me a move (that I later saw detailed on a television show, so it must be a well known thing) they had a lot of success with. They claimed that if you got a lady back to your place it means she's already into you and has at least considered sex. They claimed that given those circumstances, if you just pull it out there's a very high success rate of her doing something with it. Again, people do things that work.
David Cross has an amazing 3 min bit about this...