A question for the guys: What qualities most impress you in a woman?
Intelligence, mental strength of character and confidence.
Rhonda Rousey (before holly holm), Sophia Loren, Sally Ride, Maggie Thatcher and lastly Pam Grier all rolled into one, with Amy Schumer thrown in. Not much to ask, huh? My current partner is close, she has most of what I am looking for.
One cannibal ask the other-
At first guys ALWAYS go for a look and how you girls move?.
But for the relationship to last - that's where we start looking for intelligence and kindness. That's how bad we are?
I'm aware! My pet peeve is how men can't seem to discern the word "woman" as opposed to "women." Men do it a lot, as if all women are the same, a monolith of identical pussy. I've never seen a woman do the same thing when speaking of a man or men.
Smart, especially able to think for herself. Looks don't matter without that.
INTELLIGENCE!!!....? OH , did .... I say that... to loud? intelligence....?
@SACatWalker depends on what form of Grammerism one follows. You are right, but in my defense, I am on a cell, and typing becomes cumbersome at times as well. I should have caught that, but grammer is not my strong point. I am more about using a language from the discriptive philosophy rather than a prescriptive philosophy. I was not even thinking in that manner, just trying to be funnie. The conscious thought was communicated. But that is comical, and Im not tall.
PS
I know the difference.
@SACatWalker I am always correcting myself an having to to retype, mistroke keys had about 8 juat 9 in this sentenxw 10 alone. ? no harm bo 11 no foul. I did miss that though.
Eyes that have a depth of intelligence and a sparkle of humour. An ability to talk about different topics articulately.
A good sense of humor, compassion, intelligence, and drive.
I'm going to be real here. Intelligence, sarcasm, and height!
My German GF had all three of those. It wasn't enough to keep me even if she could Salsa with the best. But your choice were interesting and maybe my choices in 1998. But this is 2018. I will ask you the question in 2038.
Open Minded Honesty. Doesn't hold back or is not afraid to talk about anything.
I love a smart woman.
What if she's smarter than you? What if she's a genius? Just curious.
@hemingwaykitten My wife was smarter than me. It's a challenge, something to work toward. And it gives you a lot to think about.
Brains and balls (figurative).
@sarahjustme doesn't flow as well.
What if she's smarter than you? What if she's a genius? I find most men don't handle that consequence well at all. Curious what you think.
@hemingwaykitten I've met my match before, and I enjoy it.
It'll sound egotistical, but I rarely do, so it's a treat when I can wax on long philosophical rants and actually be challenged and made to reconsider or defend something more deeply than I expected.
I was madly in love with a foreign national in grad school for just that reason.
She spoke more languages than me, she could run arguments more cleanly than I on a first pass, she fenced with me (figuratively and sabre, epee and foil) it was a lot of fun.
I was the better rider though. ?
I miss it.
And my ego can handle it.
@WileEQuixote Excellent...you give me hope for the future. Thanks!
@hemingwaykitten welcome and good luck!
Shared interests, intelligence, sense of humor, confidence, introspection, among others.