It is said that the way to a mans heart is to keep his stomach full and his balls empty. Is the statement accurate ? Men and women are welcome to reply.
I'm not touching this one. ?
Why is there so much freely given advice on the way to a man's heart, but I've never seen a statement similar to that for the way to a woman's heart?
A credit card with unendable funds, perhaps. Every man knows that.
Women are swayed by chemistry, and no amount of advice can help a guy with the wrong chemistry, except, "Find someone else."
To paraphrase Anna Karenina, there are as many ways to a woman's heart as there are hearts. Just sayin'.
Tis easy...just make her the center of your universe.
Women are just to damn complex...they know where their heart is but damned if they are going to let you know how to get to it, unless they want you to.
That is a false statement. The way to a man's heart is directly through his chest.
Everybody knows that.
Might have some truth to it if he's missing a brain or can't cook.
Well said ! Lol
The Mosuo culture of China is matriarchial. Men and women do not live together, even if they have a long term relationship. Both men and women typically live with mother's extended family. Men may visit their sweetheart at night, if she allows him. In this culture, the women may do what they like with a man. Her extended family helps with her children, and he helps with his nieces and nephews.
Sounds crazy to me ?
The first time I got married I married a boy. Within the first year I realized my mistake and the second time I married a man. Huge difference. If I had wanted to be a mom I would have started from scratch not adopted by marriage. Everyman should be able to take care of himself, cook clean, pay bills and raise children equally. I'm not into spoiling people or being spoiled.
I know that's not very traditional. I'm very independent and love it when my partner is the same.
Not really. Heart has nothing to do with it, every connection starts within the brain. If there is no spark in the brain, there will be no flame. I could indulge in extravagent foods to satisfy hunger, and a lovely lady could assist in draining my jewels until they run dry, but ultimately none of that matters if there is no mental connection. Mental health is a start, then physical and emotional health shall follow afterwards. In other words, I'm not hard to please, but I require more out of life than just physical pleasure. (For the ladies out there) Keeping my stomach filled and or "aiming" for my jewels would not get you far, go for the brain. Hope this answered your query, take care.
That may be enough for some men, but not for me.
So what mire do you want ?
You missed the point of this entirely, sorry.
@OnaM ohferpetessake lighten up...he didn't even invent the saying, it has been around since forever!
@OnaM it is uptight humorless women like you that make it all uphill for the rest of us! How is it you can hurl insults at VAL3941, but nobody can point out that you have no sense of humor, you go ballistic on a "fellow woman" Hypocrite to the max!
I seem to find the men who want nothing more than a receptacle into which to pour themselves. In my experience, all you have to do is listen to them.
Many things said... have no longer meaning in today's society... I will like to believe I am more complex than that. Let them be moving forward.
Needs intellegence to move forward .
@VAL3941 following sayings don't give much to work with, I will say that was one of them. Sex and Dinner never been enough to keep me. More Complex than that.
@GipsyOfNewSpain These post make ys laugh though. That was the whole point. ( smile )
@VAL3941 smile back at ya!
@GipsyOfNewSpain Appreciated.
Not for me. Or rather, I should say.. while they are things that make me happy... they are not what I value above all else. For me, it's what I call "sparkiness"... seeing the world in a way that I hadn't seen before, an energetic enthusiasm for life, an intelligent and unique sense of humor... general ebullience paired with interest in others. That's what draws my ardor.
But what pkeases him ??
@VAL941 I am him. I was answering the question, which is not specifically about "pleasing". Abundant sex and food creates a kind of complacent comfort... but it is not the key to my heart. For my heart to get involved, another quality must be present.
Agreed but not an easy quest in this day and age. Too many self centred persons around.
I love food and banging and booze, but I'm not going to fall in love with someone because they do any of those things particularly well.
So you use it before you lose it ??
@VAL3941 It doesn't last forever, so why not? I'm a realist and I'm getting closer to not further away from pension. Might as well go out with a bang or two of three.
@ArthurPhillips I am already there. Life will get mor interesting for you from here on out.
I know a way out of my heart is some static expectations. Any dude I was with would have the same distaste for it. I need more random than expected to be in the kitchen or performing in some other way all the time. I need a guy that would find that dynamic only boring AF as well.
Stomach yes, balls no.