" You must do everything that I demand, God made man first then woman because God intended men to rule over women, it is written in the Bible."
"Yes, God made man first examined what he had made, found out all his mistakes, went back and created woman so that he'd get it right,you don't think that when they build a new model of car they just do some drawings and go from there first do you, they make scale models, then build a bigger test model, find out the errors and the things that need a bit of extra tweaking, then they build the real thing, just it was when woman was made."
This is a verbatim account of the somewhat heated discussion I over-heard between Evangeloon and his lapsed Catholic Lady-friend whilst enjoying my breakfast on my front veranda this morning.
All this after Elizabeth and I had a good long chat yesterday afternoon while Evangeloon, who was called out to help a male friend of his who needed someone to help him lay a concrete path at his house.
We discussed Evangeloon's patently obvious domineering male ideologies and how he bases them on the bible, etc, and she talked in depth about her up-bringing in her S.E. Asian family where woman are expected to be completely subservient to men, especially their husbands.
She was very amazed and interested, imo, when I said to her, " You ARE no longer in the country of your birth, you have been Naturalised and are an Australian Citizen now, shed those archaic teachings, they are trash, rubbish and garbage imposed upon women to foster, nourish and boost the egos of weak and stupid men, become the person you know you can be, stand up for yourself, do not let someone else order you around UNLESS they are your employer and then they should show you some due respect anyway, do NOT let the like of Matthew Payne dominate you, control you and virtually enslave you, you are you, you are free, grasp the concept, hold fast to it, foster it, nourish it and never let go of it."
And, I may be wrong, but from what occurred this morning, I think my words may well have sunken in, started to sprout and have bloomed overnight as well.
You did well putting it across in such a way.
Well, there is the story of Lilith that got cropped out of the books that made up the old testament. Lilith was the first woman, but she was rebellious, so she was cast out of the garden. Then supposedly god took one of Adam's ribs to make Eve, which because she was a part of him, was somehow supposed to make her more obedient.
Let's hope.
I don't think we need to hope, he has just informed, well about 15 minutes ago, that he intends to go begging her on hands and knees to take him back.
He even INTENDS to buy her a HUGE bunch of flowers and will take her out to Dinner tonight at a Restaurant of HER choice.
@Triphid Hmmm
@Lilac-JadeCanada Me also with the doubts but we may see a change, a small, very small one perhaps MAYBE.
@Triphid I won't be holding my breath.
@Lilac-JadeCanada Then I assume no-one here will be in the least surprised to know that he returned home about 20 or so minutes ago with a WRITTEN list of changes he MUST make to himself, his attitude, his manners and mannerisms, his personal hygiene, his attitude towards and treatment of women, Gays, Lesbians, etc, etc, all TYPED out on 3 foolscap sized sheets of paper in letters about 3 inches high.
Oh, and he is NOW on probation as an casual acquaintance of Elizabeth's, permitted to ring her once every 3 days and for 10 minutes ONLY, she WILL decide IF and WHEN she visits him at his home, his Probation period starts as of Noon today and will continue for as long as she deems it must.
@Triphid A bloody soap opera.
@Lilac-JadeCanada Yup and I'm trying to find a copy of a song relating to just such a subject BUT can only find " Smoke gets in your eyes,"
@Triphid
The Great Pretender
Suspicion
Dream On
Hit The Road Jack
Devil In Disguise
@Lilac-JadeCanada Maybe but I was looking for a song that fitted in with the tears in his eyes when he showed me the list that Elizabeth handed him, not that the tears bothered me in the least just that I wanted to play very loudly over the ne\xt few months from time to time to remind him of his massive blunder this time.
@Triphid Oh okay. Can't think of any offhand.