Hi. So, I posted this: "Hello, Nonbelievers! Where do you meet? I've searched high and low for a community of intelligent and pleasant people that meets regularly, in person, to attempt to have sex with eachother, and I've come up thoroughly empty handed. Where are you? Did I dream you"
And apparently everyone who read it decided that what I was describing was an orgy. Please. What I was asking was not "where are the swingers clubs" but, "do people still gather together to socialize?" To which the answer is apparently, "no, and you're a creep for mentioning sex."
So, my reaction, cause I'm a jerk, is to say that everyone needs to get the fuck over themselves and have a fucking life experience. Yes, there's a pandemic, and if you go and get your vaccine, I don't see why you should also never socialize again. Damn, you remember when people would party? Wasn't that cool?
If you literally say, “I've searched high and low for a community of intelligent and pleasant people that meets regularly, in person, to attempt to have sex with eachother”, you are asking to be misunderstood. You might have said, “I've searched high and low for a community of intelligent and pleasant people that meets regularly, in person, to attempt to have social intercourse”…or just say, “let's go be gorgeous somewhere together”…
Crash a wedding! Or how about this: If you subscribe to Meetups, they have a number of social events, depending on you area. I know it's hard to find prospective dates, especially in a pandemic. I've gotten on a couple of dating sites and met people that way, just nothing permanent. They were fun while they lasted, lol, and I've made some long-lasting friendships that way. How about outdoor activities, like hiking or skiing? Do you play a musical instrument? If not, learn one ASAP! Guitar circles are a great way to meet people.
The only problem with meeting people in a guitar circle is that you end up fucking people that play in guitar circles.
@JeffMurray Hey!!!!! I will, as a professional musician, take that as an insult. It has nothing to do with that ability, except our rhythm is better.
@Organist1 Just joshin' ya. I think it would have been funnier if it was a drum circle and I said that you'd have to sleep with someone that smells like patchouli, but alas, you make the joke that's available to you. I play trumpet, well, used to. Was in the marching band and everything and loved it, so I'm familiar. They say trumpet players make the best kissers...
@JeffMurray I know you're joking. It's true about tpt. players; I dated one once. He had me on the first kiss! BTW, it's funny about patchouli; you either love it or you hate it.
This post led me to check out your profile, which is quite hilarious. Love it.
I actually read your comment as you expected it to mean, but once you mentioned orgies, I was like: Yes, I can see that! Whoops.
Unfortunately I have no advice for where to meet people other than grocery stores and dating apps.