I don't think very many women are "disgusted" by men with gray hair. How about women with gray hair? I'm sure most women reaching middle age start coloring their hair because youthful looks are so valued in society, especially for women.

My best friend Amy loves my greying hair.

My hair went from light brown to snow white in a couple of years. Ok with me, but when I got the bald spot I said "No way, no Friar Tuck look for me!"
So I shave it all off and it feels great.

Grey is lovely. Facial hair, on the other hand, not so much. But to each her own... Also even that is not complete. Aidan Turner with a 2-day stubble is lovely.

It could be an evolutionary thing, gray hair is a sign of aging and aging can be perceived as a lack of virility. Although this doesn't seem to be the case for the Silverback in a troop of gorillas, so who knows if it isn't just personal preference?
Personally, I've been shaving my head bald in the hotter months ever since I worked in the Caribbean and found it was 5 degrees cooler under my hard hat if my head was shaved. What I found interesting is that there are some women that are fascinated by a shaved head and I have many women ask me if they could touch my head and by touch I mean run their fingers in a caress over my head, often followed by a little shiver that is clearly sexual in nature. Maybe you need to break out the hair clippers and the razor, just watch out for sunburn on your pate as it is really painful.

I thought women loved the silver Fox's.. Sean Connery...George Clooney etc

Is this not the case?

By the way I have come across some seriously attractive grey haired women... so what exactly is the issue?

Definitely not grey hair that's the issue.

I had a friend in college - utterly grey by age 22. He was handsome.

My Dad had a white spot his entire life and went very silver-white.

Nothing wrong with grey/white hair.

Wasn’t there a time when a bit of grey made us men look more attractive?

There you go buddy, I agree with you. Good thinking, good attitude. What a go!...

As a rule, I don’t like to generalize but.............

Blimey I better get my hair a makeover greying at the moment

My ex wife wanted me to dye my hair maybe because it was dyed when I met her. As we grew apart she told me I could let it be gray if I wanted to.

I love my partners hair it is reddish with lots of silver in it and its wavy whereas mine is mouse and silver and straight as a ruler.

Just for men always helps,now I don't like gray on women,anywhere