I need some etiquette advice: m\My second husband's second wife just died. Should I send a condolences card? Go to the funeral? What is the correct thing to do ? My feeling is don't go to the funeral, but I also do not want to appear petty. We all live in a small rural community and no matter what I'll do, there will be blow back.
Thank you all. I will send a card when the funeral is announced.
send a card for sure, and if you actually knew her a Small floral tribute Or an appearance at the calling hours, if any, if you Want.
Blow-back-ers can suck it!
I think a card expressing your sympathy to her and her family would be appropriate. I wouldn't go the funeral either.