Thanks to all who wrote me. I will take all the answers under advisement. Peace

Only if you feel ready.

Everyone heals differently. I don't think there is a right answer. When you feel you are ready then you are ready.

I think that is definitely your decision. They say that if you have had a good relationship, you are more eager to get into another great relationship. You know that your late girlfriend would want you to be happy. It is not a sign of disrespect to fall in love.

My condolences. My husband died a long time ago (17 years). He was my soulmate. I've had two relationships since he died. I won't bore you with the details, suffice to say they were not healthy.

Don't let anyone else tell you what's okay because what's okay for me, might not be for you.

So do what you want. There's nothing wrong with being lonely and wanting companionship.

Would your girlfriend want you lonely? if you feel comfortable dating then just go for it mate. you only have one life so live it.

My past experience was as soon as possible... I felt alone... Filling a void? Perhaps... Knowing what I know now... (18 years later) my casual dating was just what I needed... best of luck to you.. sorry for your loss.. Never easy...

Times a wasting....get right back in the game IMO. She will always be in your thoughts but you have to take care of yourself. These obligatory mourning periods are just man made rules with no logical basis. BUT.....be careful....date but don't jump into a wedding because you are lonely.

From my experience after divorce, I dated a few times, had nice times, but nothing really clicked for a few years. Even now while contacting what seem to be suitable matches on this site, I'm not sure, but willing to see what happens.

Start dating again when you're ready.

Just remember that you're never going to love one person exactly the same as another. When you eventually do become involved with someone else, it will be different from the way it was with your wife. And that's ok.

Grief is a personal journey.

I will say that I think you need to figure out who Robbie is, as a single person, not as a SO. If you feel you have done that, then you’re ready to share this new self with someone else.

Your girlfriend was/is/will be, a huge part of your life, however, you are still here. And you deserve to find happiness again.

man...im sorry. but only you have the answer to that. i wish you the best.

Sorry to hear of your loss, but only you can answer that question.
Noone else's opinion matters.