This site is a lovely thing to know about, but I fear I am not suited for it. An insular writer, I am not given to large group chats, don't feel comfortable in such a setting. Having said that, I must say as well that I am very much in favor of one-one-one discussions, even re subjects about which my interlocutor and I do not agree. . . . Any thoughts?
Personal preferences.
If one on one suits you - initiate such.