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Love will find a way. Let me put in a little analytical spin:
When Love hits, It's a "Relationship!
every “relationship” sits on layers :

Layer 1:

  1. Interactions (intelligence, humor, gossip, trivial but fun...) ? 2. Activities (shared & enjoyed)?
  2. Intimacy (sexual, physical and emotional)?

Layer 2 underneath dictates how and where the relationship may be heading:
(Shared or not) core values,
(in sync, harmonious or conflicting) personalities and beliefs,
then what evolves over time (people change (physically emotionally, life’s priorities, environment (who owns the house they live in, etc.

Yet another deeper 3rd layer: a person’s attitude: (part of personality?)

Positive or negative? For every bad trait of the spouse, are there good worthy traits ? Deeply ( thoughts or motives) hidden or willing to open up?
Willingness to communicate with your spouse/partner? With an outside therapist?

Most importantly: do you or your partner want to keep the relationship or not.
As we all are driven by what we want deep in our “heart/mind”, and “the desires…”
We make excuses for what we do, in any possible behavior directions.

Vinnie 3 Mar 16
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People have tried to analyze relationships for thousands of years. There is no one formula that will fit. At the very best, you can only find a formula that works for you based upon your own experience.

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People do not really change that much. They just do not bother to find out what really makes them tick in the first place.

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What you babbling about sunshine?! 🤨
You one of those relationship therapist or something…..🤔

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Is there some point you're trying to make, or are you just trying to impress us with your analytical skills?

No idea why my post agitated you.
This day and age, no one will be impressed with another newbie's post.
Read it with a grain of salt obviously.

If anyone finds anything worth reading in my post, great. if not, just pass. IMHO

I think he was just venting his thoughts. Maybe a hit song will come from it. Nah.

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