UNPLEASANT ENCOUNTER.... the First Baptist church and it's appurtenances occupy nearly two full blocks east of my office. I had walked those two blocks this evening to go to the post office, when I came back out and looked to the west there was a magnificent sunset in progress. As I continued westward walking toward my office, I saw an elderly man on the church steps (there are about 20 concrete steps in front of the main entrance), he was facing away from me, holding on to the rail, slowly and cautiously descending, sideways, one foot at a time, one step at a time, nearing the bottom of the stairs. Rather than startle the old gent, I stopped and waited until he reached level ground, where he turned and espied me. I commented on the stunning sunset and asked if he needed any help getting into his truck parked there at the curb. He stuck out his hand, reaching for mine, then -- with an unexpectedly strong grip holding onto me -- subjected me to a very uncomfortable religious interrogation. I bit my tongue and lied to the fellow rather than tell him what I really thought. So my cordiality and helpfulness led to a very frustrating few minutes... and I missed the last good chance to watch nature's splendorous sunset.
LOL I understand your frustration as similar things have happened to me. Recently, I treated myself to dinner and had a good book at hand, when a guy sitting at a table across from me started flirting with me. I tried to be polite, but when he asked me what church I went to, I informed him I was a "born again atheist". So, as you can imagine, things quickly went downhill. Why these recruiters think its OK to attempt to 'save' someone who clearly isn't interested is beyond me.
Just installed a paver walkway that meets ADA guidelines. That church should have a wheelchair ramp. (off subject I know but it is not very compassionate of that church to force the disabled to walk steps).
The steps are on the south side of the building, but there are both an elevator and a ramp just around the corner on the west side. Don't know why he was using the stairs, maybe he was just trying to prove he still could.
@RedRiverRogue Glad to hear it. I am not young anymore and while I still work outside and can get around pretty well, I feel myself getting older and older. Someday those ramps will come in mighty handy.
I wouldn't hold back though I wouldn't be rude
I'm trying to figure out what I should have said in order to be true to my own 'beliefs' .
@RedRiverRogue id say if you needed God so much why did you reach out for my hand? I'm a none believer. next time remember God is your reason for having trouble getting down the steps in the first place. I would have probably really either pulled my hand away and left him without a word or have been gob smacked.
@RedRiverRogue Do you really think what you could have said would have any impact, response or satisfaction from a man who probably has brain function issues? "Thanks...but I am a heretic/apostate/infidel/ would be appropriate perhaps. =0}