How do you politely request someone to stop preaching to you?
Would depend on the context. If it is some random stranger who feels like proselytizing, it depends on my mood if I try to run their brain in a circle by questioning their beliefs or just tell them they are barking up the wrong tree. If it is a casual relationship I tell them I am an atheist. Then the ball is in their court - if they want to have a civil discussion about that, I will - but if they become uncivil or push their preaching harder they've forfeited their right to be spoken to politely. If it is a close relationship... well, they know better. Either they are worried for my immortal soul, or they are looking to ruffle my feathers. Again my response depends on the situation.
You might say: Would you please stop preaching to me.
Theres no polite way to tell someone to fuck off.
I'll stress it needn't be said with exasperation or anger.
A smile, laugh ... "Oh fuck off with that shit".
Added adamance as required.
There probably isn't a polite way. I usually just excuse myself and say that I do not discuss religion.
I try not to engage by deflecting to a different topic.
@Desertdweller I would guess that you’re an “F” (Feeler) on the Myers-Briggs scale because you’re too nice. You don’t want to hurt other people’s feelings even at the expense at your annoyance … which is quite honorable. The “T” (Thinker) type would have no problem telling them to Fuck Off because being upfront and direct is how we roll … which is also … virtuous. And then there’s me who would welcome the chance to engage them in an impromptu debate or practice some street epistemology