Does anyone else believe that since ALL first dates are so strange and sometimes stressful that we all need to consider meeting others as a second date?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I'm gender fluid, although not since I started taking derris scandens, a Thai herb that seem to blend my gender modes.
But back when I would swing from one gender mode to the other, I used to have to pretend pretty girls were boys to keep from getting so nervous around them when I was in "male mode."
My feet would suddenly seem huge, my brain would freeze, and I would forget how to talk, walk, or even drive my motorbike.
I'd force myself to see them as male so I'd calm down and be able to behave naturally.
birdingnut
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May 22, 2018
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I'm not sure that changing the name will do anything. If it's awkward it's awkward. I've had some fantastic first dates.
CallMeDave
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May 22, 2018
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I think you should consider giving most people a 2nd date just to make sure you really aren't interested.
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May 22, 2018
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