It was. But then we all started talking to each other, and we all became friends.

Better than a dating site. At least I don't have to sift through people who have a completely different philosophy on life

For some people it is, and other people are just here for the community. it's a little of both.

It is for dating, friendships and community.

It may not be a dating site. I asked one woman for a pic of her and she sent me a smiley face.

It can be anything you want it to be.

Only if we want to use up our ..infrequent flyer miles

It has a dating aspect but not it's primary purpose

Not any more. We are having too much fun.

Look at the "Meet" button - then click on "Members".

Maybe you'll meet a partner - maybe you'll make a friend.

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Leesa... there is a singles group. Click on "Meet" then "Groups". All the special interest groups are listed there.

Dating is certainly a possibility. It's still afairly new site though. Eventually there will be enough of a pool for that to happen for many. Up in North County I'm sure you'll find a few bites though! You're in a major metropolitan area. You should see new members popping up pretty frequently in your area if you use the search feature.

I thought it was the new hit game. Boy, am I disappointed.

If you like the person as a friend it stands to reason they would be great on a date.

I'm here both for the community and discussion and for dating. No luck on the dating end yet. Only a couple of people within car driving range.

It's what you make of it. Friendship or dating are options.

I think they are adding features for that. I'm new and it seems like a good hang

Wow, we would have been perfect, missed it by a mere 3,000 miles ... ok, kidding, although you seem nice... I think it’s just not big enough unless you are the rare non geographically challenged match. I’m here for community... wouldn’t put all your eggs in this one basket for dating just yet.

It is a dating site with a difference?

Im good for a date, you sexy

Hi, Leesa, and welcome to the website!

You will earn points and help other members get to know you better if you write a profile and answer the profile questions, since that's the first place many people look when they see a new member.

Then you make comments and write your own posts, and when you reach level two you can private email people.

To find members near you, click on the "Meet" button at the top of the page, then on "Members," and fill our your preferred search parameters.

A link to FAQ and a website tutorial is on the home page.

Have fun!

It certainly can be, & a few matches have been made, but it has grown to much more!