Is this all there is to life? I was expecting more. What, I have no idea ... just ... more.
Set some goals.
Do volunteer work
Enjoy life
I assume you're not talking about experiences ... because there are so many experiences, too many to be had in a relatively short lifespan. Knowledge, awe, creativity, and wonder at the craziness that is life? There's more than we would be able to get as well. Connections with others? But, at the same time, heartaches and pains too.
But, if you've come from a religious background (like I have) then it will feel like you've gone from the promise of eternity to a very short lifespan, so maybe that's what you're referring to? That initially (for a few years) was quite a downer for me, realising that the promise I held on to didn't actually exist. It all felt empty for a while. Is that what you mean?
If you cannot glory in a lovely sunset or a great piece of music, you are wasting your life.
Life can sometimes seem to be less than you expected, but that gives you motivation to try to make your the best life you can
"Your future is whatever you make it; so make it a good one"
A big question with no simple answer.
I have a similar dilemma. What's the point, right?
I look to interaction with other people and with nature. Both constantly surprise and delight me. If this whole thing - life - is a cosmic fucking joke, then make your own fun. Believe me, I have been to the edge of the void. You only live once, brother; suck the marrow from the bones.
@Donotbelieve My meaning was to extract every ounce of pleasure and joy that you can out of life.
@Donotbelieve No worries. That is the problem with text - inflection gets lost. All good, my friend.
Maybe more Beer ?
@VAL3941 That usually ends badly.
@Palindromeman
Sorry ! Yes you are right ! LOL
@VAL3941 Then back to plan A - more beer:
@Palindromeman
OK ! The problem being the more beer you drink the more you wanf sex. What a vicious circle !!!
lol
I live in Tucson. I am a wine drinker myself. And, I am looking for a little more than sex. I prefer a lasting friend. Thanks anyway
@VAL3941 I'm more of a wine person myself. And cocktails. I do like a martini.
@McVinegar, @Palindromeman
To each his own they say ?
@VAL3941 Don't me wrong - it's winter here and I do like a good stout.
@Palindromeman
Yeah it is Winter here too. Still like my beer though ! LOL
@VAL3941 Okies! I tend to assume most people on this site are North American. My bad.
@Palindromeman
No Problem, was just taking the mickey out on you ! LOL
@VAL3941 No worries mate!