Are you looking for a hookup, long term partner, or someone to hang out with? Just curious.
I would like a long term partner that has all of the attributes of my dog with one or 2 exceptions. Hookups occurred in my 20's during the search for & training in sexual partners. I can find hanging out with people in bars, or at meet ups etc. So it is the meaningful long term thing that I crave but eludes me. Men seem to want a mommy now days or have they always. Hot sex wears off with the hormones & pheromones. Hanging out with men is great but they always seem to pursue the horizontal mambo. So here I am posting on a snowy winters day, feeling the cabin fever.
I am here to meet friends, spend time together in chat and enjoy what we can share together. If it turns out that we live close perhaps we can meet and enjoy each other in person. I do not ask anything from anyone other than that they enjoy the time we spend together and would want to share in that enjoyment.
Friends and cohorts would be a blessing now that I'm active again. Been home bound for a long time now, most of my friends have moved on. Anything more comes from friendship IMHO. (SWPA, NWVA, SWOH peeps? Anyone? Beuller? Beuller? )
I'm at the point now where I'd rather be celibate than put up with anyone's bullshit on the slim chance that we're in any way compatible. The right person is worth waiting for. Sometimes I wish they'd hurry their arse up, lol, but that's another discussion. All the best on your journey.
Friends, community, and maybe and intelligent guy.
Nope. Just my bloody keys again.
Why doesn't my wife put them away when I leave them lying around????
I've never been much for casual sex. For me that means sex with someone I don't know. If I wouldn't talk to you, share a meal with you go to a movie with you, why would I fuck you? I'm probably the odd man out on that. I do miss getting laid on a regular basis. Post divorce I'm done thinking about a relationship as a goal or a prize or an answer. Fundamentally I'd like to find someone to walk down the path with but if it happens it will start as a friendship and grow from there.
Not going to lie, in my younger years... I didn't care. I would have banged anyone. That is until I met my ex-wife and I felt like I wanted to be with her forever. (Forever never happened, then again... It rarely does)
After my divorce... Hell, I'm in the same boat as you. And my endgame is the same. I'd like to find someone to walk with down the remains of life's path. But.. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. I'm going to keep living my life the way that I am. For me. And take each day as they come.
I go with the flow... something to do until I return to Vegas. Cheap entertainment for the no tv watcher. I am in exile. Like always and on the move.