I am currently separated from my spouse. Her various behavior has made me assume things. Would it be wrong to spy on her to see what might be going on? Like with spy gadgets (audio recorders, gps trackers, etc.)
Sounds like a country song, "I go stalking, after midnight.." In all seriousness, don't go that route. Will only drag you down and hold you back from moving on from her, which it sounds like it's time to do. You are being serious here, right, or is this just a joke?
Pointless, just hurtful to you. Spend your money on a good lawyer...interview a couple!
Definitely wrong. If you don't trust her as it is, spying on her certainly is not going to lead to greater trust, so unless you're looking to make that separation a definitive divorce, stay away from the gadgets and put your energy toward what it is you want as a result of the situation.