For example, I have my favorite pillow plus three others with my laptop at my feet and my cell to my right side.
Unfortunately, there is no whom right now.
The poor man's wife as it is known in former Dutch Far East colonies.
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The poor man's wife is simply a cushion fastened to one leg to hold the knees apart to allow the breeze to say hello to the nether regions and to importantly help align the legs to the hips which in turn will correctly align with the spine.
You mean a wife is supposed to do that?
@Rudy1962 lol. It's been a long time but what else would you constructively use a wife for when sleeping?
@FrayedBear chase away potential home invaders
@Rudy1962 ROFL
Aw! Gizmo is adorable.
@RavenCT Thanks
Just me. Two pillows, and a hanky on the bedstand next to the clock.
I love an audience that's easy to please. I'll be here all week, try the prime rib. ?
@pthomas59 So what would you have typed? "Snot rag"?
@pthomas59 To me it represents the culture that created and used the word. IMO a culture in many respects preferable to the one that came up with the disgusting "snot rag" and therefore nothing to laugh at ... smile in fond memory perhaps but laugh no.
Spoiled, old dog--who would think she's being punished if she wasn't allowed on the bed.
Sometimes she has bad dreams and I rub her back until she stops whimpering. I hate it when she cries--especially when she's asleep.
I pile my 8 pillows up in a V like formation. Ceiling fan on. Timer on the TV to 60 minutes. Naked. King sized bed, so Laptop on the edge of the bed to the left of me (if laying on my back).
Other.
I recently got a CPAP machine so now I sleep with a mask on my face.
Same here. It's so attractive!
@Dispirited I've only had mine for about two weeks and so far no. When I picked mine up, the guy who showed us how to use them also uses one and he said he had gotten sinus infections in the past.
He said he found a little mold inside where the water tank slides in, once he cleaned that up the infections went away.
He also told us to wash them at least once a week with either sanitizer they sell, or baby shampoo. Also, whenever we get an email, or other correspondence asking if we need new seals or masks to always say yes just in case we might need them for some unforeseen reason in the future.
@Dispirited It took me a few days to get it dialed in to where it was more comfortable for me. I was getting burning sinuses because the air temp was a little too cold, a little warmer helped that. I turned the humidity up a notch and it helped with the nasal dryness.
@Dispirited No but the fellow who I get replacement masks and tubes from told me to use Listerine to clean everything - water and Listerine. Tank, hoses and mask. At least once a week.
@Dispirited The guy at the med supply place told us to never use Dawn, it's too harsh and over time it eats away the rubber and plastic.
@Dispirited I don't know if it's true, but I do know that wildlife workers use Dawn to clean animals that were covered in oil from a spill. If it's strong enough to cut through crude oil, it may be too strong for a CPAP. lol
I hate wearing mine, whether or not it makes me sleep any better is a toss up.
My stack of books(5 currently) also too many pillows: 1under my head 1 between my knees & 1 at my back.
@pthomas59 Neil Gaimens Trigger Warning, Buddhist philosophy(still working my way through that one,its dense), The Amazing Adventures of Cavalier and Clay, Rites and rhythm:the music of Cuba, and "the outlaw demon wails"(for the 6th time,lol)
@rdh2112 that's the one with the sentient dinosaurs,right? That was SO good. I loved the ideas of biotechnology in that book.
@rdh2112 wrong one. That's a damn good book as well.
I pretty much have a bed full of dogs most of the time...6 of them
I'm hoping those are small dogs?
I sleep with 4 dogs, about 300 pounds worth of them.
There is Cooper@60lbs....Spencer@75lbs....Rosie@45lbs...Bubba@25lbs...Charlie@45lbs...and the puppy Bear@25lbs....so thats 275lbs worth of dogs. Here is the fun part...Bear is a Black lab/Great Pyrenees mix that will probably get to 150lbs when fully grown
@Grant_Ballard Do you have any group photos? I've had a Cooper and a Rosie. My mom had a Bear.
I do...its got everyone but Bear in it
Sounds like a good time
I also look at my pack as 24 legs of fury should some poor soul entering my house illegally
I have my camera bag handy. Who knows? A ghost or Bigfoot or some anal probing aliens might come along, and I'd want to have evidence.
In bed with you? A camera?
I sleep with a white noise machine or even a big floor fan. We grew up in Houston with no a/c and I will always love the hum the attic fan made. It was also good at drowning out my parent's fighting. I absolutely cannot sleep without it.
3 nights a week my kids sleep in bed with me. I've tried getting them to sleep in their own beds, but since the divorce they have some suble abandonment issues, so I don't push it.
I did the same thing after my divorce. People freak out about young kids not sleeping in their own bed, but in other cultures it is common practice. Child rearing Nazis can be annoying
About 40 years ago there was an American nurse who wrote about the benefits of whole families sleeping in the same bedroom. Perhaps someone can chase it down. @BookDeath?
@BookDeath No worries, you have elections coming up don't you? If so I'm surprised that you have time to scratch yourself let alone reply or research. I shouldn't have selfishly and lazily asked.
I asked the question and got pages of conflicting opinions and reports come up.
Personally I believe that when the child is mature enough to make the move from the sheltering comfort of the parent's bed and or room then it is up to that child to do so with the parent's encouragement and in the knowledge and support that the parent's bedroom door is not locked against the child.
Here is the response to my enquiry on the net:
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The cats come and go as they please, I usually wake up with at least one of them on the bed with me. I have a white noise machine on, and the ceiling fan is on. The cell phone is on the nightstand charging. I do not use the laptop in the bedroom, and I don't have a TV in the bedroom either. The bedroom is for sleep and.......... and.......... well it has been a while.
Stuffed animals to the side where they get put for the night (what can I say, I'm a big kid at heart) my laptop and cell phone on night stand.
Usually with 1-3 of 5 cats on me, frequently with music on for background noise.
If I have a significant other, I'm a snuggler.