I dislike women who's first shot is with their daughter(s). I'd really like to be able to know whom I'm supposed to be looking at.

For peets sake - SMILE -- nothing turns another person off more than seeing a pict. of a frowning face - or hyper serious - or looking like they are ready to cry.

Dating is supposed to be fun! -- yeah I know, we have to shower and get out of our sweat gear - but ... come on try a little! Guess what - you will be rejected by many that you think are a perfect match - go figure.

Oh, and take care with the background in your selfies -- no unsorted piles of laundry, mountains of junk on the table .... the background tells a story about you as much as whether or not you combed your hair!

There is a fine whine as to whether a little cheesecake is suitable -- if one has a slender and toned bod -- why not post a swim suit pict, or yoga gear/pose pict.? ditto for Mr Sixpack -- if you got it flaunt it!!

One more thing on my pet peeve list -- "trustworhy, honest and dependable" -- hey I'm not interviewing for a puppy position in the house!!

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I had an acount there years back via facebook, no value in it whatsoever was my impression.

Do these 33 rules but be yourself? I did like the one of not cropping your ex out of the photo, and accidentally leaving her hand in the photo

I think my advice to men is if a woman politely expresses that she doesn't believe you are well matched, move on. I hear all the time from men who are irritated that women don't respond to their inquiries; however, when we try to be polite and do respond, it often escalates the aggression to the point of threats and profanity. A couple times, things have gotten downright scary for me. No one on here is entitled to a date with anyone, regardless of the response.

I know when I send a man an inquiry and receive no response or a one-word response that is clearly cutting off the conversation, I move on. He's clearly not interested, and that's fine, because if he's not interested, it's not going to work anyway.

I looked at Zoosk for about two weeks and bailed. What a weird experience.

Women do the same thing. I always see it.

I briefly belonged to Zoosk for three months. Made some friends - went on a couple of dates locally- the best of all the ones - less scammers. I suppose guys might get something out of this. I think our male members are highly intelligent and probably know already.