I always say that too much porn ordinary women don't usually like some of the stuff they do on screen

@whiskywoman It is artificial, there is no relationship, there is just fucking.

@whiskywoman I was never a prude and I just turned 74. I don't like some of the stuff they do onscreen. Much of it is degrading. I do not like others who have to degrade you.

@HippieChick58 nothing wrong with just fucking in fact I prefer it

@whiskywoman Agree, nothing wrong with just fucking, but I like having a lover, too.

@EdEarl when I care I always get hurt

@whiskywoman Oh, that's true. Our lives are tossed by the inevitable pendulum of give and take, pain and pleasure, love and hate, ... life and death. Sooner or later we are hurt, and deal with it in our own way.

Are you sure? I mean, we can all see the bold members, but the shy ones don't exactly advertise their shyness.

@AmyTheBruce maybe they flock in the Sexual Deviants group?

@Mofo1953 They may! Picture them just quietly lurking there...soaking up all that deviance...but without making a peep.

Sounds kinda kinky, doesn't it?

@AmyTheBruce hmmmm, let me think...

That’s what I was gonna say. It’s more a cultural thing than a human thing.

ya can't make butter with a toothpick!!

@Redneckliberal Well that is true. The problem is, just because you have a big spoon doesn't mean you don't need to stir the pot and pay attention to the process.

Bragger

@MsDemeanour simply recognizing my good fortune

Yep, me too, had my 'education' first when I was just 12 and half tears old with my best friend's 16 year old sister, then as a 19 year old and ONLY Male nurse stuck in the Hospital Nurse's Quarters while on the Theatre Roster for 3 long and very 'arduous' months.
Oh how I wish for those days again.

I have never talked about sex with anyone until recently. My therapist, and just a little bit with some female friends. I would never try to talk about sex with any male friends.

wow so did he just look at hundreds of them or more??? too funny now he needs a wall of peckers

@whiskywoman He did plaster casts of them all. I thought it a wonderful idea because so many women are going under the knife to have the 'perfect' vulva. Most women don't see each other's bits so we have no idea how diverse they are. And surely men don't want every partner to look identical.

@MsDemeanour none of us want every partner identical that is what makes it work what is good for me may not be good for you as it should be because otherwise one set would be getting all the men or women and all the others would go without we would soon perish.. variety is what its all about

Actually most vaginas are pretty much the same shape, etc, it IS the Vulvas (the outer parts btw) that vary in women.

@Triphid yeah, no doubt. Just as our ear canals are probably a lot more uniform than what we see.

@MarkWD It depends upon which parts of the human auditory canals you are referring to?
There are actully 2 main parts to the human Auditory canals, the Outer, from the actual ear itself to the timpanic membrane ( ear drum) and the Inner canal which houses the Choclea, the hammer, the anvil and the stapes, etc, plus the contact points for the Auditory nerves.
Plus, and I'd guess most people are unaware of this Medical Fact, ALL foetuses are genderless until the gender determining hormones are released around the end of the 1st. Trimester or early into the 2nd. Trimester.
If testosterone is the predominantly the released hormone, then the folds that would have become the female vulva then re-shape to create the scrotum, the Urethral opening and the Clitoris move together and join with the upper labial folds creating the penis, the testies are still held within the lower abdominal cavity, roughly close to where the female ovaries would be in a female foetus and only descend slowly either in the last weeks of Gestation or early during infanthood. Hence men are often prone to suffering from Inguinal Hernias where the Inguinal canal, through which the testies descend either do not close over or are torn open and a piece of the Intestinal tract can enter through into the Scrotum, quite painful, uncomfortable and often dangerous and debilitating as well.
The Prostate Gland is present in both females and males but in females it is very small in comparison to the male Prostate Gland but with stimulation during sex or foreplay can actually cause a release of a type of Pre-seminal fluid to be 'squirted' from the female Urethra as it does from the male during orgasm.

I'm only 5 foot 7....??lol

@dermot235 Don't worry mate, my old school mate was, and still is, only 5' 2" in height but we all nicknamed him " Donk," "Firehose," and occassionaly, " Elephant Dick" because of his rather well developed 'middle leg.'
Old Donk is now the father of 5 children, 3 boys and 2 girls, well they're grown up now, but accordig to his wife, the boys 'inheritted' their 'middle legs' from him.
LOL, I often wonder what her 'reaction' was on their wedding night.

@Triphid That explains it. lol

@dermot235 I'd reckon every one of us still has vivid memories of the day when 'Donk' showed our Sports Teacher WHY he could only ever wear long trousers.

@dermot235 often shorter men are better endowed but nothing is hard and fast feet are not an indicator hands are better but that's not always 100%